Well I was married for 12 years and been divorced for 3 years. I have learned a lot from my ex-marriage but it would be nice to have someone that been in a relationship longer that 4 years! That way they should know what it take to make a relationship work...I do not like starting over, it not good when you know that everyone have issues...even myself! Just give me someone that is straightforward, honesty,loyal, and true to themselves! Please don't chose me if you think I will make you happy...I rather have someone already happy...that way I can focus on our relationship, not her as a relationship! You have to find love from within before you can give it to someone else. How can one give what they don't themselves have? You have to have it ,to be able to know what to look for!