I am new to the area as I recently moved to the Tampa area from outside Chicago. I am looking for someone to become friends with or possibly more. I think you can usually tell in 2-3 months if you can see yourself with someone for the rest of your life. I value my time so I would never lead someone on if I did not see a long term future with them.
Timing is very important in starting a relationship and the timing is now right for me. I understand that feeling you get when you see someone or think about them and that is what we are all looking for. I am willing to wait until that happens because we all deserve it.
I enjoy traveling and have a friend whose wife is afraid to fly. I think most people enjoy traveling but a pre-requisite would be someone that is not afraid to fly as it is much easier to get to an island by plane than car. Although I do love cruises and you can get to an island that way. I also love outdoor concerts. I already have tickets for Dave Matthews at the fairgrounds on July 17th.
Over the years I have looked back at my past relationships and consider them learning experiences for the woman I end up spending the rest of my life with. If someone can't learn from mistakes then I feel somewhat sorry for them or the person they are with.
Before I moved I had numerous male friends and family members move into my house while they were going through relationship issues. I listened to them, I talked to them, and think I have a very good understanding of how to make relationships work and make a woman happy.
I understand most of you have likely been screwed over by a guy in the past. I can honestly say I have never screwed over a woman. I am a guy. I have many male friends. 90% of guys are idiots, including some of my friends, and they just don't realize it or have the mental capacity to realize it and change those personality traits.
If you think we may get along well message me. Don't be scared the worst thing that could happen is we don't have chemistry. And chemistry is very hard to find. if you do not think we would be a good fit then I wish you the best on here.