I've been picky I've been forgiving I've been the bad guy the good guy ,I've been the scapegoat the antagonist I've been antagonized I've learned a valuable lesson through the years..I can't just simplify the enviable .iv realized everybody has done dirt everyone has intentionally and un-intentionally hurt someone,some feel a great sence of power by making someone feel less than...not good girls....look I don't have much time left the next commitment I get into will hopefully Be healthy ,exciting ,and passion .lots of it,oh and kissing. All of a sudden .right back where I started from.1st base....it's the most important aspect of all kissing..