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50 year old man
Saint Petersburg, Florida, United States

Seeking:
men 35-55
Within:
3000 Miles of Saint Petersburg, Florida, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Probably not
Ethnicity:
Asian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'7" (170cms)
Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

I am a totally grounded man with no identity issues. I accept my gayness but never flaunt it. I am masculine and look for the same in my partner.

Confident yet never cocky, I know I can learn a lot from the people I date. And I have no racial hang ups for I believe, all of us are equal in the eyes of the Creator. Chemistry is ultimately the judge of how well a relationship will thrive, not the color of your skin.

I hope to fall in love again, having had a very good LTR for 16 plus years in the past. I am not afraid to love someone and accept his strengths and weaknesses. I am not afraid of commitment, honor, trust, and open communication. Passion and common interests will build the relationship and make it stronger.

My biggest current interest is volunteer work. I helped to start a new After School program for underprivileged kids in St Pete (I love rambunctious kids!) and am involved in Metro Charities, which offers AIDS services. Some of my other interests include hiking, kayaking, running, gym, cooking, gardening, bowling, tennis (I am hopeless at this!), reading and writing, fine and performing arts, and travel. I work out at a gym and run 5Ks, I have a steady good job, I contact people on their birthdays, and my schedule is usually flexible to make time to see you.

As a non drug user, light social drinker and responsible citizen, I hope to find the same qualities in my partner. With a good job, a home, car, and low debts, I am contented with life. But I do hope to enrich someone's life and make him happy as he will of me, I hope.

Looking for a nice guy who is fit and isn't overly busy and can spare the time and effort to get to know me. I'm versatile in relationships. I can carry on conversations on a wide variety of topics, because I've done a lot of reading and traveling. I I am okay with taking it slow, but if you can only see me once a month, it's probably not going anywhere. If you like to keep your options open all the time, you probably shouldn't be looking in these ads. This is where you have to make commitments and have integrity, or you don't win the prize: someone who loves you, has great sex with you, supports and takes care of you, makes you laugh, and makes sure you're never alone unless you want to be. I'm kind of sensitive to cigarette smoke, and I have low tolerance for any sort of drug use. . If you want to see how we click, send me an email. I'll propose a few first-date options if I like your photos, and you can pick the one you like.

Interests:
Book club, Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Gardening/Landscaping, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Political interests, Religion/Spiritual, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Aerobics, Bowling, Cycling, Dancing, Running, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

I used to have a cat for 16 years during the entire length of that 1st and only significant LTR.

Political views:
Very Liberal
Sign:
Capricorn
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

i love to cycle, go the gym (5 times a week), hike, long walks, cook dinners for friends, entertain, travel all over the world, and read a lot. Curling up on a sofa with a boyfriend or taking a walk with him on the beach is also a great pleasure.

Favorite hot spots:

Favorite places include Thai and Indian restaurants. Fav. place to visit so far has been England and would like to hit next Ireland.

Favorite things:

Fav. food will be Chinese, Thai, and Indian, and also Italian. Colors I am into include green and blue. Fav. thing to do on a rainy day: curl up on a sofa with a book. Fav. TV show: Glee. Music: jazz, classical, opera, easy listening, some folk.

Last read:

I enjoy contemporary Native American literature. I guess it is a way to understand the "other" and yet, I am trying to understand myself as well through such works. The poems of Walt Whitman and Emily Dickinson capture my imagination as well.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'7" (170cms)
3'0" (91cms) to 8'0" (243cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, Stocky
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Black
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Occasionally, Daily, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Social Drinker
No preference
Occupation:
Education / Teacher / Professor
No preference

I am in higher education management. I am an associate dean for a college; my job is to mediate disputes between students and faculty. I am always in the middle of the storm! Thankfully, I have an easy-going disposition

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
No preference
Have kids:
No
No answer
Want kids:
Probably not
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Asian
No preference

I am of Chinese descent. I grew up in Malaysia, but have been in this country for 22 years. Yes, I feel very Americanized today, but I still practice certain Asian values including humility, soft speaking, and cultural sensitivity.

Faith:
Christian / Protestant
No preference

I usually attend the Episcopal Church. I find great acceptance there; there is no judgment.

Languages:
Chinese, English, Other
No preference
Education:
PhD / Post Doctoral
No preference

I was trained as a high school teacher. I majored in English and in graduate school, specialized in US history and East Asian Studies. I also learned American Sign Language (no, I am not deaf).

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