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34 year old man
Monrovia, California, United States

Seeking:
women 21-33
Within:
50 Miles of Monrovia, California, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Someday
Ethnicity:
Asian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'9" (175cms)
Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

My goal in life is to wake up every morning raring to tackle the next great adventure. That’s not always how it goes, but I work through the failures and celebrate the successes. I pay the bills as a contract animator for Disney, but I'm between projects so I've been writing a novel and making an iPhone game that shares inspirational quotes. Truth be told, I'm not really making money on either of those things right now---but there's more to life than making money, right?

“Being the richest man in the cemetery doesn't matter to me ... Going to bed at night saying we've done something wonderful... that's what matters to me.” ---Steve Jobs

Full disclosure: I’m a pretty open-minded Christian and honestly not a big fan of religion. But I do think faith is important. I couldn’t date someone who didn’t at least believe that good is always more powerful than evil. Other than that, I don’t have any concrete notions of what my ideal partner would be like. Every girl is unique and worth loving in her own way. I admire a girl who is comfortable with who she is and what she likes.

A dream: We spend lazy Sunday afternoons at the LA Arboretum or the Huntington Library, admiring the rose gardens or the line of baby ducks following their mother across a lawn. We bring sketchbooks to the zoo and try to draw the gorillas, but we’re too distracted by each other, so after a while we just stroll through the exhibits and read about the animals. At night we go to the ballet or catch Les Miserables on tour at Pantages. Early one summer, we make a road trip through the Southwest. We eat at a couple restaurants in Las Vegas, hike into the Grand Canyon, stop the car to take pictures of cactuses on the side of the road, drive into New Mexico and shop for local art. Back home, we go to lots of museums: art, science, history---anything that teaches something or gets the creative juices flowing. Mornings, we go for long runs through the neighborhood, just as the sun rises; we’re training for that next half-marathon. After one run in the rain, we both get sick and for the next two days we take turns driving to the store to get chicken soup and lots of fluids. We spend winter evenings sipping hot chocolate in front of the castle at Disneyland. After the fireworks we ditch our friends and ride the Matterhorn under the stars. Before bed, you’ve got a book you love in your lap. I’m reading a collection of short stories by Dostoevsky or Joyce. I snore in the middle of the night so you shove me and I turn over...

“Now these three remain: faith, hope, and love. But the greatest of these is love.”

We both make mistakes, but as aggravating as I am you forgive me and I do the same for you. I encourage you to be who you were created to be, and you do the same for me.

"Life has taught us that love does not consist in gazing at each other but in looking outward in the same direction." ---Antoine de Saint-Exupery

Interests:
Book club, Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Gardening/Landscaping, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Playing cards, Playing sports, Political interests, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing, Video games, Volunteering, Watching sports
Sports & exercise:
Basketball, Bowling, Running, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
I have Fish
Political views:
Liberal
Sign:
Don't display my sign
College:
Rhode Island School of Design, Providence, RI
For fun:

In addition to what I wrote above, I like to lift weights, play basketball, and watch all sports. I love cartoons and comics. I've been playing guitar my whole life, but alas, it's not one of my talents.

Favorite hot spots:

Coffee shops, LA Arboretum, Disneyland, San Francisco

Favorite things:

Books: Anna Karenina, Brothers Karamazov, Emma, My Antonia, Dubliners.
Movies: The Little Mermaid, Lord of the Rings, Casablanca
Shows: Community, Futurama, Freaks and Geeks
Music: Swan Lake
Food: Ribs and wings

Last read:

Ulysses by James Joyce

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'9" (175cms)
4'6" (137cms) to 6'0" (182cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
No preference
Eyes:
Black
No preference
Hair:
Black
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Artistic / Creative / Performance
No preference
Income:
$35,001 to $50,000
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married
Have kids:
No
No
Want kids:
Someday
Someday
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Asian
No preference
Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other
Languages:
English
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
No preference

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