I've always been kind, generous and active. I love doing things - hiking, events, skiing, travel - and would like to find someone with the same interests. I believe in treating people well - whether it's friends and family or the server at dinner. I also like to give back - I currently clean a section of Highway 168 regularly, and have volunteered with a lot of organizations in the past.
I have two children whom I adore, a 10-yr old girl and a 6-yr old boy and I enjoy coaching their various sports teams and being outdoors - hiking, amusements parks, beach, mountains, skiing, snowmobiling, traveling. I am a big sports fan, and do enjoy catching a game live as well as following my Badgers, Packers and Brewers on TV. I love to travel, and looking for someone that likes active vacations - scuba diving, windsurfing, rock climbing and anything else. That being said, I'm not all adventure - I do enjoy dinner and a movie, a Broadway show, playing pool or cooking and entertaining at home. The sports I enjoy playing are tennis, golf, basketball and just about anything.
I have a great, flexible career, getting to help people with their money. I enjoy it immensely, and love the ability to make my own decisions about when I work, whom I work with, etc. I would characterize myself as somewhat reserved, but with a good sense of humor (sometimes a little dry/sarcastic) I am reclassifying myself as "about average" - I'm admittedly overweight compared to where I want to be (and well on my way!!), I'm big but still athletic and active - just not "toned" yet. I was a bit of a math prodigy growing up- I relate somewhat to Good Will Hunting & Big Bang Theory - but wasn't passionate about it, so I didn't follow that career path. I am mostly conservative - though not 100% (I am a recycling nazi for example, and while not a tree-hugger, I don't get the non-recycling, let's just trash teh environment), and don't agree with the current state of politics with no compromise for the benefit of the country. I do enjoy someone capable of an intellectual conversation, and can be a bit of a spelling and grammar snob.
Spiritually, I've been a 45 week Church goer the last 10 years, but am not at the moment. I grew up as an Atheist, and at this point have no doubt there is a Creator (I find the world just too amazing and complex for evolution), but have a hard time with a mostly silent God, and some of the priorities of the church as a whole. I just don't know right now - I believe in the Golden Rule and enjoyed my church family, so I'm not "anti-church"....anyway we can discuss this more if interested. I would say I have Christian morals in general, I'm not the kind of guy to be looking for a "hook-up," the idea of sleeping with someone I'm not in a committed relationship with is honestly repulsive to me.
Anyway, if you're interested at all and can put up with a little wait for my physique to get to the "toned" part of athletic and toned - I would love to talk with you more. If I happen to email you, and you have no interest, it sure would be appreciated if you'd just tell me. If I don't hear back, I'll just assume you're not interested. If you're looking for someone to "pursue" you when I haven't even met you yet - it seems you'll be waiting on the most desperate people?