I'm a quiet guy. In the right environment, I can become a different person, once you get to know me. I can easily become very outgoing and command the center of attention, but that doesn't happen very often, I have to have the right environment. Friends have told me that I come across as arrogant, until they get to know me, then they realize that it isn't arrogance, but confidence, with a small dose of sarcasm. I enjoy my work and take great pride in what I do. I may not say much but that doesn't mean that I'm not listening or haven't heard. I've been told that I'm a great listener. I'm much more a "laid back watch and see what's going on" kinda of guy. It takes a lot to get me riled up. I'm a control freak when it comes to my life and the live of my son, I protect him like a mother bear. However; I go out of the way to ensure that doesn't flow into other peoples lives. I'm looking for a women who is comfortable with her life, but wants more. She needs to be be active and outgoing. Able to go from the camping trip straight to the ball room, "what a cliche". Enjoys viewing museums as much as hanging out on the beach. I enjoy life, but know that it can be better when shared. If you're interested in meeting someone who will treat you like a lady, but will get down and dirty, then contact me.