Well I guess I will give this another shot since I seem to be missing out on the "one" that all my friends have found. I am very fortunate to have a fantastic job that challenges me mentally and physically. My schedule is quite a bit different from a normal 9-5 so my days off are always changing. I travel a fair amount with my side job, which seems less like a job and more like a very lucky break.
I stay active and am a regular at the gym. I spend a lot of time outdoors with kids sporting events, riding my road bike and mt bike and exploring on dirt bikes. I am not a big fan of the bar scene as a single guy, but I do enjoy going out for drinks and dinner downtown and concerts are always a great night out.
I don't have a particular type of woman that I look for. I have found that being active is important to me and since I am a little on the laid back side, outgoing is a great balance for me.
Cutting to the chase I guess it would come down to this.......I am very single (apparently that isn't always the case on here), I have a great job that makes me happy, I have great kids that are with me part of the time and I would rather be busy than not. I have next to no drama with the ex and think the world of her.