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BOBISREAL

Seeking fun, well matched woman to join me in discovery of the parts of life and the world we have yet to explore!

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71 year old man
Highland Beach, Florida, United States

Seeking:
women 50-65
Within:
Miles of Boca Raton, Florida, United States
Relationship:
Widow / Widower
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (2)
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Never

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

You might respond to this profile if you want to have that first, maybe bit stressful, coffee/drink/meal/whatever with a fun, intelligent guy who is rediscovering the world as a widower and seeking a good-hearted, bright, articulate, fun, physically active, and attractive partner to share that journey. Honestly, at this stage, the relationship could be based simply on two nice people enjoying the company of the other doing fun things; or, for all we know, it might lead to more. It's the old saying of the greatest journeys starting with the first step... this is mine!

Nothing makes me more happy then seeing my partner, family and friends happy and feeling I have contributed to that. My interests in sports, boating, arts, music, food, travel, charities and life in general are diverse. My “playmate” at this stage might become my long-term partner but getting there and getting it right takes reasonable time, honesty and work; I'm ready to commit to that. Making you laugh and laughing with you is high on my list of priorities as we get to know each other; short and long-term.

I am generally more attracted to equally social, energetic, athletic women who can challenge me with a strong intellect and confident sense of accomplishment. I am confident, not arrogant, enough to say that I am much younger in spirit, mind, body, interests and desires for a special quality of life than my chronological years might stereotypically indicate. You need to be someone willing to look past that first number in the profile. I have accomplished a great deal but I feel like I am just beginning to experience life at its fullest. I have the means, spirit, health and drive to extend myself even further into this crazy, wonderful world. I also know that there is someone who will share my dreams while I experience the joy of seeing that person realize their dreams!

I want my life partner to have needed space. I start with the assumption that it is important in a trusting, faithful relationship for us both to have space to do the things we enjoy beyond sharing the many things I hope we can enjoy together. In other words, I'm not about putting you in a box or trying to change you. I am one of the most faithful partners ever. By the way, so it is out there, I am even more faithful to my faith. My personal relationship with Jesus is very important but my friends and family represent all faiths, creeds, colors and even some without a spiritual foundation. I am not about trying to change anyone else - especially when I need to work on finding ways to improve the imperfect me. I tend to believe that if we don't share an interest, don't resent my interests; I won't resent yours.

I am 9 months into a permanent relocation to Boca Raton after 30 great years in LA. I have experienced a lot of the rest of the world. My life has been spent in exploration. Those experiences make up a big part of my spirit. I went from being a career military officer, to serving as an associate dean plus teaching at two major universities, pursuing another career segment in executive level non-profit management, and along the way I even managed a very large social and athletic club (with restaurants), served as a White House Presidential Aide, and enjoyed many more personal, social, professional and cultural experiences which contributed to who I am (in retirement) today.

Adventuresome travel, cultural and social opportunities, golf, sailing, power boating, a lot of exercise, plus just plain enjoyment of a special person in my life, lies ahead. Probably, I would love to discover my next love through some chance encounter but I want to see if that person might be sitting on the other side of a computer, looking for what I can provide. Are you? Let me know.

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Playing sports, Political interests, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports
Sports & exercise:
Aerobics, Auto racing / Motorcross, Baseball, Cycling, Golf, Skiing, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

I have had dogs, cats, fish and exotic pets at times when I could more easily maintain them. I love having them but my desire to travel and play my favorite sports limits my interest now.

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Don't display my sign
College:
Purdue University, West Lafayette, IN
For fun:

Sailing, Power Boating, Golf, Travel, movies in comfort, museums of all types, college and pro games, reading, hugging/kissing sofa time (plus), exploring all of the world with my mate, and encouraging each other to be all that we can be.

Favorite hot spots:

Positano/Amalfi Coast Italy, France, England/Ireland, Caribbean, exploring FL, SE USA, Ocean beaches, PCH north of LA, British Columbia, nearly all museums, quality golf courses, Palm Desert, Mammoth, NYC, new places I'm going to find in the world

Favorite things:

Giving back, boats, golf, discovery, nature, eclectic about music, good fellowship, travel, fine art, Italian, veggies, frozen yogurt, really good (non-depressing) movies, cars, beach time, and most importantly happy, playful, beautiful women

Last read:

Bible, Golf Digest, Automobile mags, Daily Devotional, Police novel, travel mag, sailing mag, want to use my Nook and iPad more - while traveling I guess.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
5'4" (162cms) to 5'8" (172cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
Blue, Brown, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Silver
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Dark blonde, Platinum
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Never
Social Drinker
Occupation:
Retired
Administrative / Secretarial, Artistic / Creative / Performance, Executive / Management, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Retired, Sales / Marketing, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Student, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Travel / Hospitality / Transportation, Other profession, Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist, Fashion / Model / Beauty

Retired when I became a full-time care-giver but love consulting pro-bono to others who want to turn their dreams into reality - especially non-profits and those who need good, solid organizational, business and admin advice.

Income:
$100,001 to $150,000
No preference
Relationship:
Widow / Widower
No preference
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (2)
Yes, and they live away from home
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference

I am very open and accepting of the highly varied ethnic, social, spiritual and cultural background of my friends.

Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other

Shared faith is a good basis for long-term happiness but dating social/athletic playmates should find happiness in their relationship regardless of faith foundations - these things have a way to work out so no rigidity in me if we are open. Be open!

Languages:
English
English, French, Spanish
Education:
Graduate degree
Bachelors degree

Undergrad in Business and Marketing @ WVU. Purdue for PhD in Industrial Psych and Organizational Behavior. Other studies at Harvard, Penn, Cornell and USC. I have taught at Purdue, Cornell and USC and was a senior executive at the latter two.

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