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43 year old man
Chula Vista, California, United States

Seeking:
women 30-45
Within:
50 Miles of Chula Vista, California, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
No
Ethnicity:
Latino / Hispanic
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'6" (167cms)
Faith:
I'll tell you later
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

I understand I'm a confusingly simple person most of the time and a bit much for most. Let me explain. If there are two qualities that dominate who I am, it is honor and integrity. (Sometimes I wish they were tall and handsome but...I digress. :-P) They are the pillars of my existence. My family, friends, co-workers and anyone that's spent an hour with me will agree. I often try to be "bigger than the situation" and take the moral high road. I believe my other qualities stem from these two basic traits. I am very generous, polite, caring, and helpful because it is the honorable way to be in spite of the risk of punishment or reward. This may sound appealing but the reality is these qualities don't always put me first in the proverbial line of life as there are plenty of people out there willing to lie, cheat and steal to satisfy their primordial desires (such as the toddler in men's pants). I can only control the choices I make, so like most of us, I ride the wake of that douchebaggery and just shake my head. This website being a bit of a microcosm of that too. The people with good physical genes and/or a used car salesman vernacular tend to receive the most traffic. It would be humorous if it wasn't a disservice to the many people with beautiful souls yet may not meet the superficial minimum standards...but again, I digress.

Although I tend to do the right thing, ad nauseam to some, it doesn't mean I'm a pushover though. I'm a former Army Officer and construction manager; currently, a law enforcement professional. Being fair and steadfast when the situation requires it comes natural to me; and the only way to do this job. I'm no stranger to self sacrifice and understand that our basic human desires tend to cloud sound judgment. I've learned that keeping those desires in check will usually yield better decisions. Bad food, bad people, bad behavior, bad work, bad booze, etc. is just...well; bad. It makes me smile when people look at me as "lucky" for the life I live. Luck has nothing to do with it. I made my decisions; it's that simple.

That's not to say I don't have any fun though. You can have plenty of good fun without hurting or even mildly annoying others...and I do. I also enjoy adult beverages, loud music 'till your ears ring, dancing 'till you're sore, laughing 'till you pee, and playing 'till someone pokes an eye out. But there's nothing original there is there? We all know how to have fun.

Who I'm looking for? I'm looking for someone who understands this about me, doesn't laugh at me for it (ha ha) and shares some of these traits. I'm not interested in serial dating. I'm not interested in sleeping with any and every woman out there (primordial desires remember). I have that toddler in my pants in check thank you; it doesn't run my life. I'd like to meet an intelligent woman who feels she has a real purpose to serve. A lady who makes a difference in the world and lives a step above the fray. She doesn't have to share my exact hobbies, music choices, food choices, culture, zip code, favorite dinosaur, etc. She'll accept any differences as interesting and worthy of exploration as I shall hers. She'll probably be misunderstood most of her life...much like I have been. She gets accused of flirting when all she was doing was being polite (huge issue for me too). She'll appear to be complicated to cynics because her heart is so pure. She's witty, funny and a little sarcastic but never mean. She's upfront, honest and doesn't keep me guessing. She knows intuition and subtle hint reading is a male recessive (read: non existent) gene. XD She knows that appearances may initially attract her...or not, but it's the content of a person's character that is key for a lasting relationship. She wants to find solutions and not confrontations. She's looking for me...I hope. She's out there...and I'll wait for her. :-)

Good luck to everybody out there.

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Fishing/Hunting, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Performing arts, Playing sports, Political interests, Travel/Sightseeing, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Auto racing / Motorcross, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Running, Skiing, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
I'll tell you later
Pet Essay:

I've had two labs and a terrier mix (she was a rescue). My ex took them during the divorce and I miss them terribly. I'd like to get another dog but I won't leave a puppy alone during the day. I know how much better they develop when you're there.

Political views:
Some other viewpoint
Sign:
Gemini
College:
New Mexico Military Institute, Roswell, NM
For fun:

Ride my streetbikes and dirtbikes. Camping with my toy hauler. Going to music shows and festivals.Vegas.Take in a cruise, motorcycle race, game, or nice dinner/drinks with good company. Time in the studio. Working in the garage.

Favorite hot spots:

Cabo San Lucas, Puerto Vallarta, Lake Tahoe, Bahamas, Costa Rica, Cozmel, Vegas, Coachella, Holy Ship, anywhere tropical with great company really, Oh, and the open desert with a full tank of gas. ;-)

Favorite things:

New adventures with someone special, Electronic music, Motorcycles, Coffee, friendship, playing music, and dancefloor euphoria. The smell of race fuel exhaust. Repairing, maintaining, and creating machines (bikes and buggies).

Last read:

Lone Survivor

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'6" (167cms)
5'2" (157cms) to 5'6" (167cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Hazel
No preference
Hair:
Black
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Occasionally, Cigar aficionado, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military
No preference
Income:
$100,001 to $150,000
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
No
No answer
Want kids:
No
Not sure, Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Latino / Hispanic
No preference
Faith:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Languages:
English, Spanish
English
Education:
Some college
No preference

New Mexico Military Institute and University of Texas at El Paso. I was an Army Artillery Officer and an Operations Manager for a major construction company before becoming a full time Ninja so...yea, no real education to speak of really. ha ha

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