Howdy, fellow swimmers in the dating pool!
Recently, a very wise person recommended that I hone my profile, for a number of very poignant reasons. In my process of self-discovery, I’ve realized he’s absolutely correct.
I’ve been operating under the assumption that more information is better, if I can make myself look like the most fascinating girl in the world- I’m more likely to pick up the right kind of person.
Problem is- I’m not the most fascinating girl in the world, yet. I was advised to pick a type, and after some strenuous blogging, I’ve figured out my type: cookie dough.
Yes, I’m the cookie dough type. I’m a delicious mixture of sugar and spice and bits. I’m a multifaceted amalgamation of a load of different attributes and interests that make life exciting, interesting, and meaningful.
The problem is, to continue with the analogy, is that I’m still raw. And while I’m not a carrier for the proverbial salmonella (drama, deception, parasitic influences) I’m just not done… cooking.
It’s unrealistic for me to assume that my… alright, dropping the metaphor- Mr. Right will come and sweep me off my feet and help me build a life for myself that directly involves him.
Most of my effort right now, is making that idealized life for myself, and then maybe my prince will come and join me in it.
So, what I’m really looking for right now- is a nice guy to help me along the way. Someone is patient, interesting, funny, tolerant of my many imperfections, and a good role model. I want to be with someone I aspire to be like.
And hopefully, on the way to becoming a delicious cookie, I get to have all sorts of fun adventures with good people, and learn more about what it is to be a successful, exciting person.
For information about my journey, or to just read what’s going on in my head, feel free to email me for information on my blog.
Best of luck!