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38 year old woman
Alexandria, Virginia, United States

Seeking:
men 35-45
Within:
250 Miles of Alexandria, Virginia, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Someday
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
Body type:
Curvy
Height:
5'5" (165cms)
Faith:
Christian / Other
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

I'm a good girl that is somewhat newly single after ending a 5 year relationship. I'd like to spend quality time with someone special, doesn't matter what we do. As long as we are getting to know one another beyond the surface and willing to share openly. I'm pretty simple- looking for an affectionate, smart, attractive (to me) man who is emotionally available and ready to potentially build a serious relationship. I am a down to earth. I do like nice things but my primary drive is not their pursuit. I want to share experiences with someone and hopefully build a partnership. I believe that just because you are in a relationship doesn't mean you don't maintain "separate" lives. I don't want to be in your hip pocket all the time- I like me time. And you should have you time, whether it's solo or out with the guys. That doesn't bother me, however, I would like to be asked to be be included in your past times/activities sometimes. I've never snow skied, but I'd like to try it. Not a regular hiker, but will get out on a nice day and huff and puff up a hill. Not a fan of water sports but if ya asked, I would join you and try to avoid drowning. Just as I would include you in my circle of friends and things I like to do. Think of it as two circles overlapping in a venn diagram.

I'm kinda shy and introverted, but those close to me dont think so. =) I can talk A LOT but quiet a lot too. I blame it on being in the business of listening. I live like a bachelorette. I do what I want when I want and eat cake or ice ream for breakfast if I choose. I hate cleaning (I pay someone for that) and cannot be convinced that it is cathartic. I like sports (football and soccer primarily) have tried golf and snorkeling, enjoy movies/CARTOONS/concerts I like music ranging from Katy Perry-to-Chris Brown-to-Cold Play-to-Foster the People-to-Adele-to-Lil Wayne-to-Maroon 5-to-Beyonce'-to-The Script tec.I like to write run on sentences but will correct your grammar. I try to restrain myself but it's a bad habit/pet peeve- call it what you want. I have friends from all backgrounds and like a lot of different things. I have no problem with who I am and refuse to be placed in a box, so if your mind isn't open...

I know this is a dating site, but I am myself from the start, not a representative of myself. That doesn't make sense to me- you'll meet the "real" me eventually so why waste time? I WORK HARD and try to enjoy the present, travel when I can, and don't feel guilty for taking naps. Trying to be more spontaneous- but you WILL have to say "get youre arse movin girl'" from time to time. Ok, well often, if its not something we've planned. 1) because I'm type A (ritualistic) and 2) because I am a professional relaxer now. I had a good run from 19-32- don't know how I survived actually with all the craziness and fun I had- definitely killed some brain cells. So I am CHILL. Also, to me, planning is symbolic- you thought ahead of time that you wanted to spend time with me. I wasn't just option B, C or D because A, B, and C were unavailable. Kapeesh? I keep it reals! Yes I meant to put that 's' there. =) So in the interest of realness since I'm on a roll, I HATE summer- unless it's evening. No one looks attractive sweating and I don't need a tan. I enjoy the beach but I will have a big arse umbrella for shade. My fav season is fall!

A giver by nature, I try to make who I'm with feel special, and it's nice when it's reciprocated. I communicate my needs and expect the same in return. I cannot read minds and passive aggressivenes is a game in which I do not participate. I need to be SHOWN that I am special to you. Small gestures, doesn't have to be grand. Doesn't take much to keep me happy.

We can talk about work (my schedule is brutal) later. Who I am and what I do are not one in the same. Oh yeah, and I LOVE my doggie Pele'! He's my bud.

Interests:
Alumni connections, Coffee and conversation, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Aerobics, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Football, Golf, Running, Soccer, Yoga
Exercise habits:
I exercise 1-2 times per week
Pets:
I have Dogs
Pet Essay:

Pele's my furry boy!

Political views:
Liberal
Sign:
Taurus
College:
The College of William and Mary, Williamsburg, VA
For fun:

Stuff people do in their late 30's.

I would like to learn more about wine (besides that I like to consume it) and become "skilled" in yoga.

Favorite hot spots:

Dive bars, coffee joints, the park if I can drag my dog there, art fairs, concerts

Favorite things:

Movie: Shawshank Redemption Song: Dancing Nancies Food: Mexican/Italian (lots of allergies so not a foodie) traveling, learning, helping others

Last read:

Gillian Flynn- Gone Girl, F. Scott Fitzgerald- The Great Gatsby, David McRaney- You are Not so Smart, The Wash Post on occasion

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'5" (165cms)
5'9" (175cms) to 6'3" (190cms)
Body type:
Curvy
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Brown
Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Dark brown
Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Dark blonde
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Education / Teacher / Professor
No preference

We can talk about work later. My schedule is atypical and will be for a while. Basically until I have a reason to change my priorities to my family (hubby and kid(s).

Income:
$75,001 to $100,000
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married, Divorced
Have kids:
No
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No
Want kids:
Someday
Someday
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
East Indian, Middle Eastern, Native American, White / Caucasian, Other
Faith:
Christian / Other
Agnostic, Buddhist / Taoist, Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Hindu, Jewish, Muslim / Islam, Spiritual but not religious, Other, Christian / Other

Not a church goer but believe in God and do my best to act accordingly and maintain a personal relationship with Him privately.

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Graduate degree
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

I learned some stuff.

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