I am a feisty and assertive fairly well put together girl. I love being able to hold a conversation about intellectual topics but can be silly and talk about whatever topic pops up. I look younger than my years because I truly believe you owe it to yourself and your potential partner to look good. I would expect that they respect themselves enough to do the same.. I am very down to earth and have never played mind games. However this has come back to haunt me because men for some reason can't handle the "real deal". I either scare them off with my honest display of my attraction for them or they simply prefer the hunt and the chase and the drama of not knowing the intentions of the other. I have lost men because I didn't realize they wanted the "game". I would like to date a man who can handle a girl like myself-trust me I am a challenge!!!!!!!!