I'm most definitely a true Gemini. I love trying new things, but I also love to stay home and just relax. I am a really strong-willed person. Everyone talks to me, gets advice from me because I find a constructive way to tell them the truth. I like things my way, but only when it's the best way.
I am, and tend to surround myself with altruistic, intelligent and positive people. Negativity, victim attitudes and passiveness are all bummers to me, because I really believe life is what you make of it. It's not going to happen unless you make it so. Do or do not, there is no try.
A great date for me is coffee or a lunch on weekdays and dinner on weekends. I am not formal really - not big on getting my chair pulled out for me, but holding the door is nice! I make my own money, so I'll always offer to split and never expect you to pay. I'm usually in an office all day, so I love to be outside. Anything active wins points. I'd say I'm a foodie, but I'm a Paleo foodie, so cheese and bread doesn't rock my world.
I think I'm looking for a man who is as strong or stronger than I am. I have very strong convictions and I'm passionate about everything I take on and I need someone who can match that. Our passions don't have to be the same, but the effort and drive have to be there. I love to build up and support someone I care about, as long as I know you are doing something worthwhile.
I want to date someone who can enjoy stimulating conversation about politics, science, religion and social issues and also thinks fart jokes are funny sometimes, but knows when to tell them. I love laughing. I try to find the humor in life's stressful moments, which is easy to do when you think you've probably done it all before.
My current picture is current. I have long hair, but I like to dress up and do fun things with my appearance hence the many different looks. I am curvy per the Sir Mix A Lot definition. Little in the middle, but I have a butt. Definitely no Dunlop..