I canceled my account (last day 2/27/13) to focus on some other unanticipated life circumstances (hence won't be able to read emails on here). I am on FB, profile hidden, but hint... I'M NOT ONCE IN A MILLION KINDA GIRL, BUT A ONCE IN A LIFETIME TYPE OF WOMAN... that and a strong ENTJ Female. If you find me, I expect an honest intro letter, prefer having mutual friends, and might be very cautious at first, but will appreciate the time spend finding me. ;-) Meantime, here is a little something about me:
I honestly hope to one day find a genuine person who will adore me, will be my best friend, will be respectful, will make me realize he was worth the wait, will make me feel like a treasure, will welcome good communication as a means to grow, will be able to be supportive and funny during good and bad times, enjoys alternating who makes dinner/cleans, teaches me his hobbies, likes learning new hobbies and not afraid to laugh at self, has both a silly and serious side, is nurturing and protective but never controlling or abusive, and mostly... looking for the same qualities in a woman too.
With that said... PHEW... I'm a divorced mother with 2 kids (not having more, but don't mind if the other person has kids too). My kids live with me so my time is very valuable. I would like to find a kind and passionate partner to grow old with and have fun traveling the world and enjoying all life has to offer (I'm adventurous). I
My favorite food is Sushi, but I eat most other cuisine and love trying new things (sorry, no fast food, but I have had grubs salsa and fried grasshoppers - LOL!). Kids-free weekends (1st, 3rd, 5th), I enjoy dancing, going to concerts (no country, but love 80's and 90's music), seeing plays, but can also have fun visiting places, playing modern dance music or shooting some pool (preferably where there's no smoking allowed). Weekdays I'm usually busy with kids/work. I am looking for someone who understands life isn't always easy, but can find ways to add colors, keep sparks flying, and end each day respectfully, content, in peace, and hopefully laughing and filled with love for God and for each other and both our families.
I'm easy going, don't date around much, don’t play games and expect the same respect and honesty in return. If I don't return a message, it is most likely because I am not on here much. I don't move fast, take my time getting to know people, find it important to first build solid friendships and observe the level of compatibility and how each person deals with various circumstances and how that relates to the relationship and hopefully helps it grow stronger and better.
However, without that initial chemistry it is rare to find passion. I am not self-observed, do like someone with similar looks as mine (not much into the smoker skin, beer belly, or "had too many parties" looks), but learned that looks and money aren't everything and am willing to get to know someone's personality. I learned with age to live a humble life and finding my soul mate is my reason for being on a dating site, but not my reason for living. I live to enjoy seeing my children grow up and enjoy all life's beauties, but would love to have someone to do so with.
I love the beach, movies, bicycling, and hula hooping and guess that's how I keep in shape. I don't ride motorcycles and am not a bike fest kind of girl, but more of the science center type nerd type. I love relaxing walks around the park or beach with a glass of red wine for dinner. I can sit back and watch a movie at home, but am considered energetic and on the go most of the time.
FYI... If you're looking for a beautiful woman to just have fun with, but not develop a lasting and loving relationship with, I'm not the girl for you, and would appreciate not wasting my time!!! My pictures are up to date and I look the same and hope anyone contacting me extends the same courtesy. PEACE, LOVE, and HAPPINESS!!