I am a very loving and compassionate person -- I love to have someone to care about and for, and to have someone who does likewise for me. I am an extremely passionate person -- About EVERYTHING I do. If I spend time on something or with someone it is my focus and I give it my very best. I love men who are assertive, know what they want, who are sexy and tender at the same time. I take very good care of myself so I also value a man who has the discipline to take care of himself as well -- Not only is physical fitness a sign of self-respect, but it also shows that you have respect for your partner, and that you want them to find you physically desireable. I think it is extremely important to be the best you can be body, mind and soul. I love to laugh, so a good sense of humor is a must. I am adventurous but also love to rejuvenate at home. I love travel, dinner parties, and the company of interesting and intelligent people. I believe that we are called to grow and improve every year, and do my best to make good on that belief! I love being in my 30's because I know who I am and can also say am not getting younger, what I want, and what I bring to the table. Every "mistake" I have made in my life has served to increase my strength, compassion, and wisdom. Living each day to the fullest is not over-rated!