Most days I’m pretty energetic and happy with life. I try to work a little, play a lot. I’m both a reader and a food lover by upbringing which has resulted in cookbooks having to be pried out of my hands since I discovered in recent years that the kitchen is not really a dungeon that holds the refrigerator hostage. Torn between the dueling needs to explore new places-meet new people and to be alone to recharge my batteries, I’ve never been quite sure if I’m an introvert or an extrovert – but I generally have a good time whether I’m with close friends, strangers I just met, or by myself. If I could add anything to my life, it would be a gentleman who constantly makes me laugh. Someone comfortable and happy with who he is, but who’s always up for self-improvement. Someone I can explore with, but who’s also content to sit at home and hang out (there goes that introvert-extrovert thing again). Someone who takes care of himself and those he cares about and appreciates having someone to take care of him.