I am a mother first and foremost. It is my priority and privilege. Second, I am a woman. A woman seeking to fulfill my destiny whatever it may be, with whomever it may include. I do not need a relationship to feel validated. However, companionship is a wonderful gift. It does not define one as an individual, but it helps enhance quality of life in my opinion. I love to laugh and consider myself light spirited. I find it mentally stimulating to have a man challenge my mind. I enjoy deep thoughts and communication. I am very passionate in various aspects of my personality. I love hard, work hard, and play hard but in moderation of course. I enjoy the little things in life. Inclusively, I also appreciate and value the big moments in life. I have a strong moral background that was instilled within me from a young age by my mother. She is my best friend and go to person about everything in life. She is probably the least judgmental person I have ever met. That's probably where I get it from. Of course there are things I need to keep private. She raised me strong and independent. I have my own mind, but am open to others and their point of views. I believe people can all learn from each other, no matter what position you hold in life. In my headline I say I love all things, good and bad because I believe that life always has it's good points and it's bad points. The bad points make us stronger while the good points teach us gratefulness. All in all, to me, being humble is the most attractive attribute a person can posses. I am not gaudy however, like anyone else, I do enjoy the fine things life has to offer. I am not really looking for anyone in particular. I don't have a specific type. Well, at least I don't think I do. Ultimately, I decided to come on the site to open myself up to possibility and explore a new approach to meeting people. I don't meet people often unless it's at a family/friends function. Also, part of the reason could be because I am very devoted to my children and my business. I do have girls nights out but don't find I am attracted to just looks. I don't like to waste anyone's time especially mine. My friends say my standards are too high. (Which could be true) For me though, I don't think it's about standards. It's about not settling for the only guys that cross my path. It needs to feel right. Like I said previously, having a partner is not a necessity for me. I would consider it a gift from beyond to find Mr. right. So far, that has not happened yet. So I'll just wait and see what the universe has in store for me.
