"It's not important how many people I've killed. What's important is how I get along with the people who are still alive. " Jimmy (Bruce Willis) - The Whole Nine Yards
"...the darkness is about to drown us unless something drastic happens right now." Arthur (Dog) telepathically to Oliver (Ewan McGregor) as Oliver asks to give Anna his phone #. Poignant romantic comedy-drama. - Beginners
I am looking to spend time with someone who's life is well established yet still has room for me to "fit in" from time to time. I'd hope to enhance each other’s lives while not needing to be the center of one's Universe. I work very long hours and very hard while also raising a teen solo. When the weekend comes around it would be nice to have someone to shake off the responsibilities of the week and laugh about life with. Right now I have very little to offer emotionally or of my time so if you ask too much of me I'll run. At this phase I'm looking for a slow, no expectations start. Not looking for much in return except honesty, full disclosure, health, kindness, fun, laughter, passion, and a stress-free experience that may develop into a relationship when I am ready. (Well now that it's in print It seems like a lot..... er?)
I don't know how to describe myself. I am painfully shy but once I feel comfortable around you I won't be. If you can pull me out from the inside, I am incredibly giving of my heart and spirit. Generous in all ways you can imagine. Motivated by smiles. My daughter compares me to Annie from Bridesmaids...c'mon you know you watched it. I'm a goof who will do anything to make you laugh or smile. I make myself laugh all the time...I am driven in my career. Committed and loyal to friends and family. In my heart there is rarely a difference between friends and family. If / when I truly bond with someone, it is everlasting.
The opposite of love is indifference - The Lumineers - Stubborn Love
Either you love something or you don't. I may have an opinion or I won't. If I am passionate about something you will know. Otherwise I tend to be generally indifferent about most trivial topics and will go with the flow. Some have a difficult time with women that are just this easy to please. If I say I don't mind where we dine or what we eat, I really don't care. I just want to be with you. Maybe I am looking for someone who makes me feel MORE about MORE. "I throw my hands in the air and say - show me somethin'!"