I’m a self-employed Ad Man. I’ve lived in Coto de Caza since 2001. I’m, honest to a fault, I don't, nor have I ever cheated. I'm a caring guy with a good heart and what really makes me happy is to make others happy. So why am I still single? It's a fair question. It's because I won't settle. I realize that no relationship is perfect, but there are those that do come close. I want the kind of love affair that friends and family would be jealous of. The kind where you are best friends, lovers and soul mates. I absolutely refuse to settle but i know once i find the right woman and we will be tother for the rest of our lives that will be out of my mind and . I’ve been on this “quest” for almost two years now after a long term relationship came to an end. I think it’s safe to say that I’m not rushing things Don’t get me wrong, I have met a lot of really nice people and made friends along the way. But I have yet to meet someone that takes my breath away. I don’t care if it takes another week or another 20 years. I don’t want to give my heart to someone and it not feel 100% right about it. I've worked hard to get to where I am today and I have had many adversities in my life. Each of them made me a stronger person. I am at the point now where I can really enjoy my life and I have a lot of hope for the future. But happiness isn't nearly as sweet unless you have someone to share it with. I'm looking to fill that void in my life and my soul.