I am a fun-loving intelligent man who is looking for someone in kind. I always laugh and consider myself a true gentleman. I am first and foremost a Father and my children always come first. My perfect match wouldn't be perfect. Perfection leaves out the fun in discovering one another and the enjoyment of compromise. There should be a ying to the yang. There should be some disagreements, as well as agreements. My perfect match wouldnt be perfect, but rather GENUINE and HONEST. That is what defines PERFECT to me. No fakes, or trying to change themselves to be in a relationship. The first attraction is what we see in each other. People shouldn't change for one another...that will only end in the demise of their relationship. Just someone who loves themself and can be happy with who they are. I believe that will be my perfect match of happiness.