(Currently not a member. Sorry. But drink a glass of Merlot and listen to "Wicked Games" by The Weeknd while reading my profile for more effect.)
I’ve been told by too many people that I’m that unique, one of a kind guy who will make some girl very lucky someday. Maybe they owed me money and it was a lie? I’m not sure. Anyways, I’ve never been the kind of guy to pick a girl up in a bar, the gym or grocery store seems too cliche and I figured this was the easiest way to find what I want. I’m EXTREMELY laid back, but know how to be the man in a relationship. I’m caring, loving and always present myself properly to the girls I date. I’m the kind of guy who will open the door and pull out your chair for you and always remind you that you’re beautiful. I love sports and music, just like any other man. Love to read and further myself mentally and spiritually. You'll find me cleaning my house listening to a Joyce Meyer CD followed up by some Kanye and Drake, it's how I roll. Otherwise, I’m pretty go with the flow.
What I’m looking for:
I want to meet a woman who is above the concept of being independent, focused on her career, fitting in and being attractive. I want a woman who is mainly focused on personal growth, having a sense of self-esteem, her spirituality and her happiness. Someone who realizes when you focus on the last four, the first four come naturally. (I’m really not that deep, just know the mindset I want in a partner.) I need someone who knows what she wants and is willing to communicate what is on her mind. Someone who understands the importance of date nights, passion and intimacy (in time) and knows what it means to the relationship. I need a girl who likes to get dressed up and have an elegant night out but equally loves the days we sit around in hooded sweatshirts and watch movies and sports. I need someone who has a strong sense of humor and can keep up with my stupidity (the good kind of stupidity, of course.) A girl who can sound educated and still quote Step Brothers and The Hangover. Someone who loves good conversation, but finds meaningless conversation just as enjoyable. I’d love to find the girl I can sit around and do nothing with and feel like I have everything I need. Lastly, I need a partner that is strong in her faith. I don’t need a Jesus freak, but someone who has a strong spiritual foundation and lives her life based on it. Extra points if she finds it important for couples to go to church together.
I’m ultimately looking for my best friend. I don’t know if I’ll find it here, but it’s worth a shot. I enjoy becoming friends at first and seeing where it builds to-maybe just friends, maybe a relationship, maybe a lot more.