ME - I am real, genuine and congruent. Charming, classy, cultured, down to earth and very well traveled - 73 countries and counting. Traveling is by far my biggest passion. I have lived, worked, studied and volunteered abroad. Confident - NOT cocky. Successful, stable, athletic, active, I love anything outdoors. Spontaneous, fun and adventurous - I live and lead with 110 percent effort. I am diverse, intelligent and independent with a positive outlook on life, a great sense of humor and the sarcasm / wit to match. I would describe myself as well mannered, kind, ambitious, driven, and intellectual. Very romantic, caring, generous, and loyal. I am non-judgmental, accepting, and value people for who they are NOT what they are. Your job, money, success and beauty will not impress me. I avoid superficiality, games and drama at all costs. I am very social and outgoing and never afraid to just put myself out there. Honest, direct, a great communicator and listener. Honor, integrity, and altruism are important to me.
I pretty much live my life by the following:
God gave us two ears and one mouth for a reason - we need to listen twice as much as we speak.
The only place success comes before work is the dictionary.
The only asset you can never get back is time.
Once you are satisfied... you never get better.
You miss 100 % of the shots you don't take.
Tu puedes dormir cuando estas muerto
I have an amazing life and lifestyle and would love to find that special someone to share it with. If you are tired of the typical NYC dating scene - AKA 'the next best thing' - we are on the same page! If you are looking for a guy who is genuine, ‘real', and has small town manners and values but can cut it in a big city…. I just might be your guy!
Someone who can respond with more than just one line... depth, substance and character are important.
More than just a pretty face... a good heart, personality and chemistry seal the deal. Spontaneity and those who know how to have a good time and not take life too seriously win me over. Affection and intimacy are important. She should work to live, NOT live to work - balance and moderation are imperative. I am attracted to drive, ambition, tenacity and those who can overcome adversity. Assertiveness and success are sexy. She cannot be afraid to call me out when I need it or have the 'tough' conversations when they are warranted. An open communicator without 'walls' is desired. I value people who have had true life experiences and who understand the world is a beautiful place but yet real and pragmatic. I want my equal, my lover, my best friend and a connection on myriad levels. I am looking for someone who can challenge me and complete me. Above all - genuineness and congruency are huge. Be you and be real - no facades. She has to know what she wants, how to let her hair down, open up, have fun and let me in.