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51 year old man
Fair Lawn, New Jersey, United States

Seeking:
women 30-53
Within:
15 Miles of Fair Lawn, New Jersey, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (1)
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
Latino / Hispanic, White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'10" (177cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

The kind of relationship I am seeking?
Hmm…How about something like this:

With the right person, anything can be fun, because you like to be together, laughing and joking around with each other. I’m looking for chemistry on all levels, connecting in mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual ways, where we can be open, honest, with no hidden agendas, compassionate, understanding, considerate, thoughtful, reasonable, forgiving, and having realistic expectations…that kind of relationship would be worth it because it would be fun and very meaningful...soulful.

If you don’t connect that way, you won’t have any passion, intimacy, or commitment down the road. Good communication skills are essential, if you can’t have the courage to completely share your thoughts, feelings and intentions, then you can’t really create a close relationship. How could someone understand, be supportive, and help you to get what you want or need, if they don’t even know the real you? Of course it takes risk, but the alternative is to never have a true connection with someone.

This is me, and my photos are recent. What would be the point of showing up to a date with someone that you may want to spend the rest of your life with and start things off without integrity? What kind of relationship would ever work out that way, without honesty, trust and respect?

I may sound like I'm so serious, but those who know me can tell you that I'm always making them laugh. I think it’s a good balance between being straightforward, knowing what you want, being serious about your goals, and at the same time, being positive, lighthearted, having a sense of humor, and being able to laugh at yourself, and the silly things we all have to go through.

My life is about my close relationships, it comes down to the fact that I believe people are more important than things; their happiness is more important than ego, or having to be right. It’s about cooperation and making life work for all concerned, rather than competition, taking advantage, or selfishness.

When I was younger, I remember thinking, “If I just had ____ in my life, then I would be happy”, but I soon realized that there’s nothing missing, I'm complete as is. The longing in my heart wasn't there because I need to get something, it’s there because I need to give something, share something, and that’s why I’m here on this site. I'm seeking the one who wants to share this ride with me.

So, if you relate and appreciate what I’m saying, please don’t be shy, or feel limited by “the way things are supposed to be done”, feel free to send me a message. We’re both taking the time to be on this site, and I would hate to think we didn't find each other because I somehow didn't find your profile.

Best of luck!

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Performing arts, Playing cards, Playing sports, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing, Video games, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Baseball, Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Cycling, Football, Golf, Dancing, Inline skating, Martial arts, Soccer, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga, Hockey, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Cancer
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

Spending time with family is very important to me. I also play guitar and sing. My latest hobby is photography. I like sports of all kinds, going to the movies, taking walks, outdoor activities, etc.

Favorite hot spots:

Cayman Islands-sun, snorkeling, tropical night air, very relaxing. I've traveled to a lot of places, so I don't have a list of where have to go. We'll go where you want, The company I'm with is more important to me.

Favorite things:

Music-I tend to like the older bands like Beatles, Led Zep, Eagles, etc., but actually have a wide taste. Food-Japanese, Mexican, Italian, French, Indian, etc., but the best part of a good meal is having it with good company.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'10" (177cms)
4'11" (149cms) to 5'9" (175cms)
Body type:
About average
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Hazel
Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Dark brown
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Dark blonde
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation:
Executive / Management
No preference

Retail Management

Income:
$75,001 to $100,000
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
No preference
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (1)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
Not sure
Definitely, Someday, Not sure, Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Latino / Hispanic, White / Caucasian
Asian, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other

I'm Cuban, Spanish and French.

Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
No preference
Languages:
English, Spanish
No preference
Education:
Some college
No preference

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