"I don't want a boyfriend. I'm looking for a GREAT MAN to walk off into the sunset with, sounds corny but true." "And so I don't want to get exclusive with anyone until that guy shows up." Building a friendship is a foundation for anything lasting. You can't make sparks happen, its there or its not. Thats what I call the butterfly factor. Someday I hope to meet someone who makes me feel that way again and I'm not going to settle. I'm doing great on my own so until then lets have fun.