Where does one begin? I'm a dedicated father who has/will continue to make any sacrifice for my children. Aside from Christ, they are #1. I dont attend church on a regular basis, when i do, its normally non denominational. I enjoy many things, company makes all the difference. I'm normally a tell it like it is person, I will voice my opinion with respect and dont get offended if you do.. Naturally, there are times when things are better, left unsaid.
I'm the custodial parent of two children, ages 3 (girl) and 13 (boy). I'm in no hurry to get back to the altar, I separated 07/11 and the divorce was final 03/12. No longer attached, by any means. I'm interested in meeting a lady that would like to hang out and get to know me, and me her, and see what happens. I'm not a juggler, so its one at a time for me. Not a serial dater or a player, Hopefully you wont be either. I'm not a clubber, (the smoke literally kills me). However, nothing wrong with dinner and a possible drink on the patio of a restaurant. I haven't been out in such a long time so if you have any suggestions, lets hear them.
Im involved with my kids and their activities, school related and non school related. Basketball and football with my son and the little one has began gymnastics recently. Its standard visitation around here, so, generally, i have every other weekend to myself.
As for you, a good start would be to be drug and drama free as I am. Like quiet dinners, ball games, movies at home or out. Also, no alcoholics. If you cant handle your liquor, LEAVE IT ALONE! I drink on occasion, but not more than one or two.If you have a couple more than I do, that is acceptable. Just be sensible. As important as all the above mentioned, jealousy, controlling, insecurity, or any sort of abusiveness wont be tolerated, for me or my kids! If you want to know more, feel free to ask. I believe i have met the minimum character requirement. You should also be completely detached emotionally from your previous relationship, i mean, REALLY, how can you progress in this state of mind. It will only be fair to you and the person you are interested in.
I think initial attraction is what starts the ball rolling, however, its not what i feel holds a couple together. If I view your profile, you have caught my attention. I do read the profiles, first actually, and the content is far more important than your pictures.
Separated! Really!!! - Sh _ _ or get off the pot.
Spiritual, not religious! You have a crucifix on your necklace! Can you explain this to me? ?!!! ?!!! Please refer to the answer above, no pun intended.
Thanks for reading and good luck.
