Like most of you, I have some hesitation as to this approach to dating. Let's get over it? Its no disgrace that as we get a little older are lifestyles don't offer the same opportunites to meet someone just right for us. I started a company that buys/sells/remodels property and find that I run into very few exciting and eligible women within my daily routine. I like sports, watching and playing, but I am no fanatic which means I would rather be with you on a Sunday, even during football season. I care a great deal about my family and would hope you would feel the same. I have fallen into that trap where I work too much and have failed to take advantage of the great things life has to offer.. and I want that to change. I would love to share your hobbies.. maybe a dance or cooking class..a ski trip..a day at Fenway Park..Saratoga for the races..I'm up for anything. Above all else, I am gentleman and feel that I know how to treat a lady. I have a knack for doing the "little things" and it feels so great to do them for someone who can really notice and appreciate them. Even if it leads to nothing else, I for one would like to have a better answer for "whats new?" and "what did you do this weekend?". They say you miss 100% of the chances you never take! If you are so kind to respond, please have photos in your profile or attach them to your note. After all you have seen and heard about me. This is hard enough as it is, especially if I can't even see you! She would be a woman who can still appreciate being treated like a lady. She has earned her indepedence but can still enjoy being taken care of (even if she doesn't think she needs it). She can appreciate a spontaneous trip to try soomething new, even if it doesn't always work out just right. She can still feel that little rush inside at the right touch of her hand or her hair. She cares about her family, and mine, and knows that sometimes others come before ourselves. And she wouldn't mind wearing an outfit I like or her hair a certain way, just because she knows I like it.