I am looking for a relationship not a friend with benefits. No judgement- it is just not what I am looking for right now.
I am a successful and established lady- happy in life and career. I have been single for a while and now am looking for a friend and lover with potential for something long term. I enjoy spending time with my partner, having fun, goofing around, being silly.
I will connect with someone who has time to build a relationship. I will really like you if you have your affairs in order and have nothing (that you can't handle) in the way of moving forward. Kids are ok- I don't have any- but I am not opposed to dating someone with children.
Things that attract me: humor, progressive thinker, confidence, empathy, playfulness, kind heart, social awareness, common sense, active, nice smile, good kisser and cuddlier, intelligence, stand up to me when I am wrong and offer constructive feedback so I can grow, love for travel- and the means to do so.
Things that are deal breakers: cigarette smoker, elevating yourself by putting others down, if you have children but you are not involved in their lives, lies and half-truths, closed minded, or if you are racist or homophobic.
Hopefully this provides a snapshot of my personality and values. If you think we should meet - Message me :) Also- if we do meet and you are not interested...I am totally cool with that. I will not be offended, in fact I will be impressed that you had the courage to say so....and we could end up great friends!!
