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53 year old man
Torrance, California, United States

Seeking:
women 35-52
Within:
25 Miles of Torrance, California, United States
Relationship:
Currently Separated
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity:
Asian, Black / African descent, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
Faith:
Christian / Catholic
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

I have no idea what to write so I’m winging it.
I recently found out through Chemistry that an ex got into my phone records and my profile and said some nasty things to the only woman I was interested in at the time, but we caught it and I hope it’s over. I've been separated (divorced) for almost two full years now and I've got a feeling that I’m about to meet “the one” but how do you do that in the grocery store when the aisles are so tight, having any kind of conversation with another person is going to shut down half the store. I know women get hit on all the time, but I don’t do that because the research says that most men most all men actually think women are attracted to them when they really are not, and men usually believe a date went well when the reality is that it didn't go well and she doesn't like him! Well, I’m the opposite of that; I don’t care how well the date went, I won’t have a clue unless you let me know – but isn't that better than having some guy hang all over you that you don’t like? I’m a man and I admit I can’t read women at all unless I know them well, and I wouldn't even know a relationship was going well until several months into it; and even then it would only be an assumption because we were still dating (I’m kidding… sort of).
I'm a good guy and my female friends want to set me up, but then it gets too many people involved but they say I’m a catch – and they are brutally honest about me and tell me my flaws without hesitation – for example, I can’t spell to save my life and they think that is hilarious; sometimes even spell check can’t figure out what the word is so I have to pull out a Thesaurus (that got red-lined by the way). I have a very good sense of humor (see above) and can laugh about myself. I’ll do all the gentlemanly things like open doors, tell you that you are gorgeous and pay for the dates, but what year did the rule change where the man stopped paying for the dates? I still believe that the man behaves likes the man and pays for the date – I think I would be insulted if she offered to pay. I guess I’m not the “modern man” because I love feminine women and I love it when they enjoy being treated like a lady. If you looking for a man that is more like men used to be (being protective of everyone around me; especially women) without being chauvinistic, then I’m your man, but if you’re looking for a guy that knows what colors match, and what shoes go with a certain shirt, I’m not that person – I don’t know how that works and I’ll have to ask you all the time if I match; it’s one of my faults – and I have no problem admitting my faults, but as I've gotten older I know I’m a better man today than I was five or six years ago and I know what I want and I’m happy the man I turned out to be.
I just ask one little favor; if we are really hitting it off, could you please let me know? I won’t have a clue, and now that I've read the research, I’m not going to assume anything until I know you. One last thing - I have not kissed anyone since I left because I wanted to do the right thing, but two years is way to long so I'm sure I'll be OK - I'm looking forward to it.

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Movies/Videos
Sports & exercise:
Football, Martial arts, Swimming, Weights / Machines
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

I was lucky enough to have the perfect dog for me named Gracie but she's in a better place now. I could run with her without a leash and she would run right next to me for miles. I don’t have kids so she was my kid.

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Pisces
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

I just like to be productive in some way – even if I’m fooling myself. There is no way I can just sit on the couch; I’ll work until the day I die. Vacation is a different story; once I’m gone I’m very relaxed and carefree.

Favorite hot spots:

I love tropical places and like to scuba dive or just be in the water. I love warm water (83? is warm to me) so I try to go somewhere like that once a year.

Favorite things:

House was great off and on for years. Strike Back is great. I love movies, but there used to be so many good ones out there and now there is like one a year. The Jason Bourne movies were great.

Last read:

They were psychology text books -- boring reads for most people but they were fascinating. You think you know a lot and then something just floors you - I'll never stop learning..

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
4'11" (149cms) to 5'10" (177cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Blue
Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Dark brown
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Silver, Dark blonde, Grey, Platinum
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation:
Education / Teacher / Professor
Administrative / Secretarial, Artistic / Creative / Performance, Executive / Management, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Labor / Construction, Legal, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Retail / Food services, Sales / Marketing, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Student, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Travel / Hospitality / Transportation, Other profession, Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist, Law enforcement / Security / Military, Fashion / Model / Beauty, Architecture / Interior design

I teach, coach and write books so my life is diversified, but I cannot spell to save my life. Sometimes spell check can’t figure out what word I’m trying to type.

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Currently Separated
Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids:
No
No answer
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Asian, Black / African descent, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other
Asian, Latino / Hispanic, Native American, White / Caucasian

Moderate - you don't know someone well unless you've seen them under stress.

Faith:
Christian / Catholic
Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist / Taoist, Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Hindu, Jewish, Muslim / Islam, Spiritual but not religious, Other, Christian / Other

Catholic but I'm not super religious

Languages:
English
Other
Education:
Graduate degree
Bachelors degree

Bachelors degree and two masters but I should have gone for the PhD - just to be called doctor

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