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42 year old woman
Atlanta, Georgia, United States

Seeking:
men 35-48
Within:
150 Miles of Atlanta, Georgia, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
Faith:
Christian / Other
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
I'll tell you later

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

I am a woman of many life experiences. I deeply love and value family and friends and in this lifetime, hope to be a blessing to all of them. I would describe myself as intelligent, articulate, cultured, kind and giving (almost to a fault) and extremely ambitious. I have traveled the world for both business and leisure, dabbled in modeling and spent time abroad and living 10 years in the New York area. I moved back to Atlanta in 2004. I believe every man/person and experience is my teacher. I have grown more in these last few years than I have my entire life. 'I know both how to be abased and I know how to abound.' I've had a lot of fun; more than some would in a lifetime and been places most people only dream about. I've cried tears of joy and rivers of regret; all have shaped and inspired me for better. I know my role as a woman in a relationship and being too independent sometimes has an adverse effect on what we as women say we want. I've learned to talk less and listen more and stay true to my beliefs without being judgmental of the beliefs of others. I'm learning when to cleave and when to leave; this includes people, environments and situations in general. As I continue to evolve, so do my goals and my priorities. I really like who I am becoming. I am building positive historical data which includes making right decisions in assisting me on to my path of greatness and fulfillment. I want to leave a legacy that my God, my family, friends, community and even I can be proud of. Today, I am a better woman than I was yesterday and now know that the "perfectionist" (me) is not always perfect. I am a woman looking forward to giving all I have to a man who is available to love and be loved. I now understand what it means to submit to him...that took a while but I get that now. I know how to esteem, and encourage him by supporting his dreams and that sometimes you don't ‘win’ a disagreement, even if you're right; especially when it's at the expense of the other person. As far as what I want in a mate...
I first look for a man to be rooted in his faith and has a relationship with God (a Christian), accountable to someone other than himself; next, a man who is MARRIAGE-MINDED. If a man is mature and serious about marriage, he doesn’t need to date me (or any other woman, for that matter) for more than 6 months to a year to know if I’m ‘life-partner material.’ I like men who are intelligent and make me feel safe; an overall good decision maker, stable and knows the importance of providing security for a woman and no, that does not mean financially per se'; someone who is strong yet tender-hearted, generous and an all-around good person. I also find humility in a man extremely attractive but more importantly, one who’s honest. Say what you want and what you expect. No relationship can be successful without good, open and effective communication. I enjoy exchanging life experiences and someone who is cultured and has had a fair amount of exposure who could possibly teach me a thing or two. Versatility is important. Spontaneity and flexibility are key; someone who can go with the flow. A man's beliefs, his friends and the importance of family speak a lot about his character. I love to laugh so, please be ‘loose around the collar’ with a sense of humor. Of course, physical appearance is important as well. I cannot date a smoker or someone who is otherwise not conscious of his physical well being. Appearance is directly proportional to how he cares for himself. Finally, I like a man who is a great manager of his finances and one who is a planner. I am most compatible with men who are athletic, confident but not arrogant, ambitious and entrepreneurially minded...someone to build an empire with. A man who recognizes and knows the value of a good woman. He knows his strengths but not afraid to be vulnerable with his woman and admit his weaknesses.

Interests:
Book club, Business networking, Cooking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Performing arts, Playing sports, Political interests, Religion/Spiritual, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports
Sports & exercise:
Basketball, Bowling, Football, Dancing, Running, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
I have Dogs
Pet Essay:

I have two minature poodles.

Political views:
Some other viewpoint
Sign:
Don't display my sign
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

I’m a ponytail, ballcap or a ballgown girl.I frequent museums and have an appreciation for art but can be down to earth too.I love music-RB and Gospel and can respect TRUE Hip-Hop artistry.I like the outdoors, sports and romantic comedies.

Favorite hot spots:

I've traveled extensively(had a passport since I was 9),love Paris (I've been more times than I can count on 1 hand)and the coast of Spain in San Sebastian, absolutely breathtaking. My ideal vacation, the Island of Capri,Italy.Next stop-Vancouver, BC

Favorite things:

I'm a Southern Girl who enjoys cooking and fine dining; Mediterranean is my favorite cuisine. My passion...actively working with the Youth Ministry at my church.I love shoes and shopping. I AM THE STILETTO PRINCESS with a real soft spot for animals.

Last read:

I spend a lot of time at Barnes & Noble or purusing online book previews.I read my Bible to know the heart of God. Recently,I've also read:Reposition Yourself,The Audacity of Hope,The Game of Life and How to Play It and The Purpose Driven Life

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
6'1" (185cms) to 7'0" (213cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
I'll tell you later
Social Drinker
Occupation:
Other profession
Executive / Management, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Sales / Marketing, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Other profession, Law enforcement / Security / Military, Architecture / Interior design

Reserved for a later date

Income:
I'll tell you later
$50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
No
No answer
Want kids:
Not sure
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
No preference

I am African American and proudly embrace it.

Faith:
Christian / Other
Christian / Other

As a Christian, my God and my faith are everything to me. I am far from perfect but growing daily and constantly striving to become all that God has called me to be.

Languages:
English, French
English
Education:
I'll tell you later
Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

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