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46 year old man
Woodland Hills, California, United States

Seeking:
women 29-47
Within:
100 Miles of Woodland Hills, California, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (1)
Want kids:
Probably not
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
Faith:
I'll tell you later
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

I'm just returning to Match after a long chunk of time off for good behaviour.

Just be excellent; that's what I expect.

My kid is 18. She's beautiful, smart, and a fine young woman very much engaged with her own life. Right now, she lives with her mom...but I see her frequently and spend as much time with her as I can.

I'm a professional concert producer and tech consultant. Seriously. If you don't dig driven, entrepreneurial / artistic types, you won't be happy here. I'm constantly moving between buttoned-up corporate-ish and wilder, more creative worlds. I love my work.

Simultaneously, I'm arriving at a place where I finally have the time and means to explore the next phase in life... I'm looking forward to it.

Below, I've left my snarkier, older profile in place, It's meant to be demonstrative of the sort of jive appealing to a broad spectrum of folks...some of whom might value wit more so than sincerity.

These days, however: I find myself ditching the superficial banter for very plain speaking. I think--if you're the sort of gal I'm looking for--you'll appreciate that.

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Dating site advice:

"Talk about your hobbies..."

Building model trains is a "hobby". Stamp collecting is a "hobby". Everything *I* do, however, is serious, serious business.

[NEW!] Examples: I'm a promoter in the dangerous underground world of illegal pot-bellied pig racing.

"...talk about your goals and aspirations..."

To leave the rat race behind and open up a smoothie shop on St. Thomas or in the Seychelles and spend the rest of my life chillin' out.

[NEW!] I'm sincerely dead serious about that.

"...about what makes youself [sic] unique..."

Sic means the misspelling of the word *yourself* was part of the quote. If you didn't know that, this informative tidbit alone should give you a sense of the sort of intellect you're dealin' with here. It's only matched by my ego.

[NEW!] Honestly...I'm regularly humbled by ridiculously smart people, and ~very~ patient with folks who just don't get it. (I used to be a teacher, and a really good one.) Sadly, I don't know enough really smart people. I want to know more. It'd be awesome if you were one of them.

"Women enjoy hearing about your taste in music..."

When it comes to art and entertainment, I'm a professional. My taste is bigger and better than yours. Just standing next to me makes you more cultured and refined.

[NEW!] That's kind of true? I sort of hate that fact...because a lot of people don't truthfully resonate with things like the arts, etc. (usually that means they've never actually had a legitimate experience with a given art form)...but, I can guarantee you this: no one will think you're dating a troglodyte, or a Luddite for that matter. (You see...there I go again, and I'm not even trying. It's a real problem! )

What else do you need to know about me?

[Obligatory slightly over-confident repartee follows...]

I know the lay of the land. I've been around the block a few times. Still, I don't ride a Harley, sometimes I wish I could ride a wave, and I know I can ride your case...if and when that's something that appeals to you. Witty banter is probable. Authenticity is an endangered species in this animal park, but you might find it here. Otherwise...critics confirm: my oeuvre is original; an entertaining albeit well-memorized repertoire delivered with interpretive panache; a gifted sensitivity to the audience and occasion. Fortunate improvisations will have you on your feet. You'll laugh; you'll cry... You'll be glad you did. You might even remember what you were looking for. (I, however, have never forgotten.) If I contacted you, there's a reason.

[Caveats and disclaimers...]

If you smoke anything that slows you down, if you're less than brilliant, beautiful, and bold...you're gonna have a hard time here. FYI: I'm also very vegan [friendly].

Interests:
I'll tell you later
Sports & exercise:
Running, Weights / Machines, Yoga, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

I prefer big dogs. I don't like poodles, or cockersnoozles, snickerdoodles, etc. If a cat can possibly weigh more than your dog, the dog and I can't wrestle for your affection. If you have a little dog, it's got to have the heart of a lion.

Political views:
Some other viewpoint
Sign:
Libra
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

I don't own a TV. I like film. I see a lot of movies. Like...almost ~every~ movie. I like most opera. (If you don't like opera, I'd wager you've never been to one.) Dance, theater...I dig it. Nothing beats being outside.

Favorite hot spots:

My favorite "Hot Spots" are at sea level or above the tree line... The harder it is to get there the more I probably like going there. The couch works, too.

Favorite things:

I'm afraid telling you about my favorite things--if I could hone 'em down--would probably incite you to Wikipedia or Google every other word...names and nouns that'd open up your mind to a whole new level of discerning taste and experiential bliss.

Last read:

The first movement of the Haffner Symphony by Mozart. Mind and Nature, A Necessary Unity by Gregory Bateson. Screen Future by Brian David Johnson. Eat People: And Other Unapologetic Rules for Game-Changing Entrepreneurs. Oh...and your profile. :)

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
4'10" (147cms) to 6'1" (185cms)
Body type:
About average
Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Hazel
No preference
Hair:
I'll tell you later
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Artistic / Creative / Performance
Artistic / Creative / Performance, Executive / Management, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Labor / Construction, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Retail / Food services, Retired, Sales / Marketing, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Student, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Travel / Hospitality / Transportation, Other profession, Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist, Law enforcement / Security / Military, Fashion / Model / Beauty, Architecture / Interior design
Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
No preference
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (1)
No answer
Want kids:
Probably not
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference

English and Scottish heritage; Irish name. Visited my great, great, great, great...great grandfather's castle. Oh, yeah...and I'm related to the guy who invented Morse Code, but you won't have any trouble deciphering the things we talk about.

Faith:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Languages:
English, German, Spanish
No preference
Education:
Bachelors degree
No preference

I went to school at a well-known conservatory. (The year I was admitted, they accepted only five people to my major.). And: I have some post-graduate work in the school of hard knocks. In both cases, I've been mentored by some really amazing people.

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