Im looking for a guy who can treat me like a lady, except who I am, don't try to make me into someone else. He must be over any ex's including the ones he has kids with. Deal with the kids and that is it. I will not play second to no one. I want respect and he will get it also. I don't want any head games. Don't need any jealousy either. Im pretty blunt. I want someone that wants to be with me more than 1 or 2 times a wk, so living fairly close is a must. Looking for a friend to start and hopefully it leads to bigger and better things. I don't like to be used, I'm not a user. Lets go out and have some fun. If you're in your 40's act like it, don't try to act like a 20 some yr old. Time to grow up and be a man.