Im 32 never married no children Im an anesthesia technician looking for someone around my age or older has a job a car doesnt live w/his mom or pals has no kids no crazy xwife or current crazy xgirlfriend. I would like someone to take me out a handful of times before trying to sleep with me AKA dating lol
Im somewhere in between everyone I met thus far. Im not here husband hunting not looking for a friend w/benefits or an immediate relationship. I just want to go out have a good time if that goes well do it again, isnt that how relationships start? By good time I mean platonically, friends for a while, time frame?? I havent dated or been in a relationship in 5 years for many reasons cut me a break, let me get comfortable w/you dont just shove your tongue in my mouth, if you have to ask for kiss then Im obviously not ready to give you 1 yet. I havent ridden a bike in a while, I had to put back on my training wheels, lol
Coming to the conclusion that no one on here knowns what they want including myself. What can you get from a profile? A picture that may or may not be you in the present tense a description that possibly could be embellished/fabricated? You meet for dinner coffee drinks and expect what fireworks? How many first dates are amazing theyre awkward. The most you can hope for is a good conversation/some physical attraction. The profiles all read the same looking for/I am honest funny sarcastic confident extra and for goodness sakes get a picture if dont have 1, would you be in contact w/me if I didnt
What I am looking for I dont know? Im completely aware that my wants/needs are 2 different things my dream man probably doesnt exist thats ok. I didnt want to define myself because Im not selling a car. Im comfortable use to being alone I miss a significant other but being alone means never having to explain myself, which Ive been doing alot of on here so I am going to try to be more specific as to not waist anyones time
Political talk not how I want to spend my time. I do care about the country I live in its a touchy subject for well acquainted people lets keep it light. Im firm on no dating people w/kids. Ive had 2 relationships w/kids its not for me. I promised myself not to do it again regardless of circumstances. I am selfish and I dont want to share my toys lol. If your kid is not #1 thats a problem my problem is I want to be #1 or at least have the opportunity
Im funny, sarcastic, some people take my sarcasm the wrong way sarcasm is tricky. I think Im attractive inside/out but beauty is different for everyone. Im ambitious I love my career, sometimes, and havent done anything to further it, if I won the lottery tomorrow I would quit my job. I will tell you I never watch sports willingly and I dont cook. I like food not wheatgrass fruit drinks. I would love to travel but my profile pictures are from this year my first trip in a decade. I still like to go to bars/clubs cause I love to dance.I also like to stay home watch tv/movies like everyone else. I like to dress up but I wear my sweats/jeans more often.I exercise regularly but only so I can look good in my cloths and eat unhealthy food. I smoke even though I know its unattractive, and possibly a turnoff. I swear way too much according to my mother and when are they ever wrong? My family is my everything especially after my father passed away last year. I work to pay bills buy shoes and have a little fun w/flaws I except and openly admit. I just want to start dressing up more than I wear my sweats, lol
