*OFF MATCH as of Oct 9, 2012* (aka cant see emails, read or send msgs). Follow the CLUEs to contact
Rumor has it dating in LA can be fun, especially if approached w/out too many expectations, especially since for many of us life gets too damn complex on its own, without additional help. But don't tempt me, 'cause if the stars align and chemistry knocks us over, I'd be down for turning in my dating/bachelor card and going for it with the right partner-slash-companion
But if you're going to talk the talk all about falling in love and finding that person.... be ready to walk the walk. Nothing more unattractive than a beautifully confused or conflicted woman. Well, perhaps even more unattractive and unappealing is the "bad girl" hiding out behind the vanilla mask... trust me, it's not working...had you figured out from the beginning
We should all understand that online dating means that people may be dating more than one person or at least entertaining the possibility of connecting with multiple-others around the same time frame, until it's settled where and with whom a good fit exists. Open honest is paramount
Important still, in the context of dating and intimate relationships, manipulating others, hiding behind 1/2 truths, deflections and any sorta phoney bologna is a MASSIVE CHARACTER FLAW, I'm convinced. Think about it.
But IF we're just having carefree-fun-no-worries, still no reason to mislead... let's have our cake and eat it too!
If you've got a healthy dose of these going on, definitely message me (look to the photo captions for CLUES how to connect)
You are thoughtful, legitimately intelligent (less about university degrees/letters; more about awareness and processing), affectionate, and interested (rather than "interesting"... get it?)
You're into "white guys". I date outside of my race, mostly, not a strict rule though. The contrast physically and otherwise just works for me
You're fun, cool, quick, witty, possibly sarcastic but with an "off switch" that you know when to use, without reminders why
You don't play to the crowd: every word/action pre-thought to cater to someone's opinion of you or to be agreeable. Have some balls... (just not literally please). But - and here's the catch - don't be little-miss-agressive-something-to-prove (already dated her 3-too-many-times and just . . . doesn't . . . work).
You are an Authentically Empowered Feminine Woman, liberated and not ashamed/bashful/"shy"/masked-insecurity, with nothing to prove (worth repeating), which is very, very sexy. This also means that you already know how to give AND receive love, share yourself and your vulnerabilities
You are OPEN with you thoughts, feelings, ideas, emotions and have no need for hiding your truest, essential self, not hiding from yourself, not keeping safe from your friends, no keeping secrets and misleading others through half-truths, and not shielding those little/orlarger insecurities from your bf/man/dude/boo
You process with the heart as much as with the mind
You have personal style, something that makes you unique
You're a lover (not a fighter)
You recognize that kindness is a choice and understand its importance
You dig Radiohead, VAST, Trentmoeller, Nina, Marvin and Tribe Called Quest
Your judgments are limited to finding fresh produce and speeding through traffic in LA
You have a beautiful exterior that reflects your interior
Passionate living is your 2nd language and you've learned its nuances, style and form
(Borrowed from new friend who amazing-messaged me her "list")"Last but not least, you need to know how to love me. I want nothing more than to be loving, caring and kind to someone and inspire the same from them."
You've ditched the crowd and its mentality. In Los Angeles pretty much like saying "money fame status me me me me ME!"
Your name is Levy Tran and you want to make babies...