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31 year old woman
Houston, Texas, United States

Seeking:
men 31-42
Within:
Miles of
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
I'll tell you later
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'6" (167cms)
Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

Are you sure you want what you’re asking for?
Based on the profiles I read, most men are looking for a kind, fun lady, who knows what she wants, who is fit and independent. Some will go as far as saying they want a “Christian” woman or one who loves sports.

KIND-How do you know if she is kind if you only flirt online/text? What happened to talking or f2f communication?

FUN-How do you know if she is fun if your preliminary conversations are about her last relationship, how long she’s been single, why she’s single, religion or politics?

KNOWS WHAT SHE WANTS –Ooh, a decisive woman who knows her worth and clearly knows what she wants is really scary for most men. Admit it. You know you would rather pursue someone who is indecisive and of the mindset of “Whatever comes my way.”

FIT – A fit woman is a confident woman and often turns heads. Despite this preference by most men, I believe men really prefer an unfit woman, who typically has low self-esteem and since she’s not turning heads, the man is less likely to be worried about other men trying to get her attention. It’s a control thing. Keep her fat and feeling thankful she has you, right?

INDEPENDENT – Are you sure you want an independent woman? --A woman with independent critical thinking skills, who makes decisions on her own, perhaps take care of her own livelihood (not living with relatives) or dependent on others/institutions? I find that most men are intimidated by a woman’s independence. Some blame the feminist movement. I believe men want a dependent woman. Not all independent women are of the mindset of “I don’t need a man…I have my own A, B, C, etc.” Many women are forced into independence either culturally or economically due to many factors including education, relocation and employment. Not every woman puts her life on hold waiting for a man to take care or her so don’t get upset if you happen to stumble across a ready-made woman who has everything—materially, spiritually, intellectually, etc.. These independent women know a real man’s worth and will freely relinquish the superwoman activities when a real “protector and provider” man enters her life. Are you a real man or are you like the majority population who prefers a needy-please-rescue-me-I-only-have-a-GED-and-no-goals-or-motivation-arm candy type of woman?

CHRISTIAN – Oh this is my favorite esp. from those who exclude certain ethnic groups. After all, don’t we all have the same creator? LOL. So it’s ok for a guy to seek a Christian woman, but act unChristian like. So in other words, don’t do unto others as you would have them to do unto you? Are you honest? Loyal? Faithful? Are you committing adultery? Do you have any addictions? Are you verbally or physically abusive? Is your only motive sex without commitment? Do you talk of this preference or walk the talk. Actions speak louder than words.

SPORTS – I think it’s great when a guy is into sports—it’s very masculine! It’s cool if a woman is already into sports, but don’t try to create a mini-me mindset. Don’t try to convert your woman into ‘one of the guys.’ Women who are into cooking or ballet are not necessarily looking for a guy who loves attending the ballet or spending more time in the kitchen than Rachel Ray. Having shared and differing interests helps balance the adventures in a relationship. It really is the yen/yang effect that accentuates shared space than a mini-me of either he or she. I really don’t think that men are looking for a woman who lives, breathes, walks and talks sports….He’s simply looking for a woman who does not mind the time he commits to enjoying that hobby and if she could tag along to the stadium, the golf course, or watch the game together, he would feel less guilty. Simply put.

So can you change my perspective? I don't want to meet your representative, I want to meet the real you. Do you truly know what you want and are you committed to finding and keeping it?

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Business networking, Cooking, Dining out, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports
Sports & exercise:
Dancing, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga, Other types of exercise, Hockey
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

I love dogs--grew up with many different breeds. ! However, finding Mr. Right is a higher priority than becoming a pet owner right now.

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Don't display my sign
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

Salsa/bachata/merengue, exercising, leisure traveling, nature walks, farmers markets, baking, going on foodie excursions, networking, talking to family, and relaxing with good company. I like to surround myself with positive people.

Favorite hot spots:

Favorite places in Houston: Uptown, Galleria, Bellaire, Willowbrook, Hillcroft, Upper Kirby. Elsewhere: Toronto, Bahamas, Puerto Rico, Camelback, Marco Island, Sweden

Favorite things:

Music: 80's, NeoSoul, Reggae, Latin, Jazz, gospel, some country with crossover, soft rock (Journey). TV:Undercover Boss, King of the Hill, CNN news, Food network, HGTV

Last read:

Produced by Faith

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'6" (167cms)
5'8" (172cms) to 6'9" (205cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Black
Black, Dark brown, Salt and pepper
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker
Occupation:
Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering
No preference
Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married, Divorced
Have kids:
No
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Definitely
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Hindu, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other

I attend a very diverse non-denominational church 1-2 times per week. If you believe in God, great! I'm spiritual, not religious. I'm not interested in Atheists or Agnostics.

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Graduate degree
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

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