I have now been on this site approx. 4 weeks. I have met several people for a coffee or whatever. Do not attempt to meet me or get in contact if you do not look like your pics or are just looking for a couple of laughs and moving on. I do not mean to be rude,but, I am noy interested if you are not serious in looking for a match. I don't have to get married or need to live with someone right away(maybe in time), but, I am looking for someone to be with. I am a one wman man and not into games. Sorry if I sound mean (though I am not). You can hide who you are .......right up until we meet. ok, back to my profile............... I love to have someone that can do the balance of a lady wearing an evening gown to one that can throw a hat on and go get a starbucks. Someone who can say I don't want to go with you or hey can I go. Speak your mnd be yourself and don't change from when you meet someone and give a false impression of who you are. Don't sweat the small stuff. Snuggling is the other half of making love.Respect is the umbrella and honesty,communication,trust etc. is what is under it.I am very upfront and passionate for what is good and right for every situation.Let people be who they are and just enjoy their differences.