I have been on Match a few times before and I have learned a few important things. First, despite what all of the women on this site say they want, very few of you will actually take a chance on a guy that matches up to what you say you want, even if it's a very high percentage match. Second, if you don't like the picture, your not gonna bother reading what I write here. So, I have decided on a different approach. In the past I tried to write some romantic sounding heart grabber of a description making myself sound like I'm the perfect guy. Well, the truth is I am far from perfect. We all have our little quirks, and quite frankly I don't wanna be perfect. My 'quirks' make me who I am, and I am proud of that. And honestly I don't want a 'perfect' woman. And who determines what is perfect anyway.
Do you really want to know who I am? Are you really interested in getting to know someone who might be exactly what you are looking for? Or are you like so many others and only concerned with my profile pic. I'm sorry to say ladies, not all of us are photogenic. I know who I am, and I know I have more to offer than most guys. I could just write the same old stuff that every guy thinks women wanna here and get the same results, but be honest ladies, it doesn't work.
I know the qualities that I possess. And I know what kind of a person I am, but what I should really write here is what seems to be the most important things that women are looking for. So, here are a few things that appear to be important to most women on match.com.
1. I am employed in a field that I am extremely enthusiastic about and am on a path that will lead to my dream job.
2.I do not live with my mother. I am recently separated from the Military (your welcome), and am starting the process of purchasing my own home.
3. I have a car. Well, I own a bike to but that's for fun. And I don't mean a motorcycle.
Now, If I still have your attention I will tell you a little about me. I am divorced, even though until recently my profile said never married. I am not sure why, but the site would not let me change it. I am originally from Pittsburgh and grew up in the South Hills. I take pride in taking care of myself and my body. I like to exercise daily. Not because I am obsessed with my body, but because I want to live a long and happy life and don't want my health to prevent that. I used to be a lot heavier and lost a lot of weight to get into the Army (I enlisted at 37). I am not built like Channing whats his name or Ryan Gosling, and I don't look like I'm photo shopped. So if your only interested in that type of guy then you'e in the wrong place.
As far as what I am looking for? Honestly I don't know. I thought I knew what I wanted in a partner and was wrong. I do know that I want something long term, marriage eventually and children of my own. I want someone who is honest, loyal, compassionate, adventurous, understanding, not superficial, funny, cute, sexy, smart and doesn't make promises that she can't or won't keep. I am not looking for a supermodel, but let's face it there has to be attraction. And also a woman who doesn't play games!
Anyway, if you've actually taken the time to read my profile then maybe take the next step and actually contact someone who might be just what you 'say' your looking for.
