I can take care of myself, my needs and my households. I need a spouse/ companion who can do the same. Little boys looking for another mother need not apply. Im very strict with my age preference so if your over 35 please dont message me. I've traveled to over 30 of our states, and through several countries in Europe, and I consider that a good start. I'm a strong minded, intelligent woman who knows what she wants and lets very little get in the way. I've Lived, Loved, and Lost, and through it I've learned life is to precious to waste it being anything but happy!!!! And don't hold grudges, it only causes undue stress and aging on your skin:-) I love to look my best, and at the same time can look and feel just as amazing in sweatpants. I'm looking for a confident, healthy, affectionate partner who is kid friendly:-) I'm planning on relocating to the Traverse City area this summer so I've been seeking matches in that region as well.