Someone once told me I attract attention, we'll see if that's true.
Online dating has become the norm in our society so sooner or later you were bound to come across me. Your time is happening right now.
During this chance encounter how will we interact? Will you send a wink to start things off, maybe just get your feet wet so to speak. And if I wink back, what then? Will I hear from you, and if so what will you say? 'Tell me a little more about yourself'? And after I reply, will you let that one answer allow you to judge what type of person I am and immediately decide then if it's worth another response or will you write me off?
I like questions...answering them and asking them. It's the only way to get to know someone. One of my favorite verses in a song states the following:
Is there anyone who
Ever remembers changing there mind from
The paint on a sign?
Is there anyone who really recalls
Ever breaking rank at all
For something someone yelled real loud one time
My point is, I truly believe that people, humans, need to afford one another the time it takes to get to know one another before we label ourselves the judge and jury of the other's personality. I've seen people spend more time picking out fruit at Whole Foods than they do to allow themselves the opportunity to truly get to know someone.
Don't get me wrong, I understand that time is precious and most of us don't really like wasting it on a loss cause, but there's a fine line between wasting and simply spending it on something worthwhile.
So what'll it be? Will you spend time getting to know me or feel it's a waist of your time and journey on. Each one of us is allowed to answer that question as we see fit. For the one's choosing the latter...happy trails to you, for all the others, buckle up and get ready for an awesome adventure.
Aside from my day job I am an artist and a designer (I have a line of greeting cards). I 'm a hopeless romantic and am still wanting to be swept off my feet. What I ask of anyone I am also willing to give. I don't believe it's one persons job to make the other happy, content, secure. I believe both have the same set of rules and regulations so to speak the make the other feel important, cherished, trusted, honored, adored. Did any of this light a spark...