Am looking for someone to start a friendship with and if something develops from that great if not I've made a nice friend. I am looking for a non smoker, social drinker is ok. Hard working and determination are what is important. Attentive but not to the point of smothering. Also I am not a casual sex sort of gal. If that is what you are looking for. Move on. Sex without emotional connection is for the animals. And not enjoyable to me. Great sex not only involves the body but the brain. It is also a trustful expression of deep caring between two people. Take care.