When I give myself to someone, I enjoy showing it. Like buying little gifts just because or cards that say how I feel. I am a very caring person I can be serious at times and fun loving and free spirited too. I am a firm believer in order to be happy it has to come from within, it's something you can't look for another person to provide. It can only add to your happiness to be with the right mate. I also believe that your past builds who you are today. I personally strive to do my best for me and for my family, and thats with anything I do. My perfect mate would be someone that isn't scared to be who they are. Someone that has the personality and ability to see the good in any situation. Someone that can show emotion. *Someone that can communicate at any level weather its serious or joyful.* and *Someone that enjoys spending time as a family unit as well as just the two of us.* These * things are a must and if you can't handle my honesty do not reply.