I am looking for a man whom has his head on straight not into games and not into the bar scene. Must have children and understand how they come first mine are much older and not as needy of mom these days, so now it is my turn to try and start living. I work alot and enjoy what I do I love my job... I am looking to start a friendship and see where it may go, I have a simple and drama free life and like it that way and expect the same from my mate. Life is too short to sweat the small stuff. I am not looking for a pen pal nor to jump into a romantic relationship right away just take one day at a time.