Let me say first that I am one who believes in laying the cards on the table,I want a man who can speak his mind. Let me specify, you must be able to express yourself honestly and represent yourself with integrity. I am a grown woman who can handle the truth. I have a career that I love and that enables me to support myself and my children in a comfortable lifestyle. I am not looking for someone to take care of me or vice versa. I want someone who can offer what I can. To clarify one of this site's standard questions, I believe in God, although I dont subscribe to one specific religion. I have personal and spiritual beliefs that guide me through life.
I am open to all races, nationalities and body types, because after all we are all striving for our own personal best. I exercise 4-5x a week but still have work to do, as with anything, it is a journey and a process. Physical attraction is very important, but the strongest chemistry comes from a mental connection. A sense of humor is a requirement.. I love to laugh and I have an odd sense of humor. I need a man who can banter back and forth with me without being cruel. I am truly looking for someone to share this life with. So please, if you are a serial dater, or are not looking for ONE woman to share your life with, do not waste my time... Life is too short. I am not into the typical dating games! If I like you, I will tell you.. I do not feel I have to wait XX amount of days to call you, so I dont seem too eager. I expect someone to be the same in return.
Lastly, I am very affectionate and need an affectionate man. Once again I am putting this in full disclosure. If I have to ask you for a hug, I do not consider you affectionate. If I always have to be the first one to initiate contact, be it hand holding,a hug, or a kiss, I do not consider you affectionate. I have never been one to engage in casual sex and I have no desire to start now. I am in no way a prude or against sex. I believe that sex is a gift. That is, when a woman CHOOSES you to share her mind, body, and soul, it should be treated as a gift, not a requirement to date. I am NOT looking for someone to jump in bed with, so if that is what you are looking for keep on looking