I have to agree the the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result....but at this point I have taken as challenge to see if I can actually find the holy grail or someone worthy of a 2nd date
I truly love what I do and I am making my dreams come true. That's a powerful thing. I decided to make a huge life change about 3.5 years ago and haven't looked back since. I left corporate america for the unpredictable world of being self employed. I wish I could say it was a long road to get here- but the truth is once I set my mind to something- consider it done. In less then 3 years I have gone from a rookie real estate agent to a top producer. I am very driven but I want a balanced life! I just love what I do and more importantly helping my clients turn a house into a home.
I am not the housewife type- sorry! but better to find out now that doing laundry and dusting is a waste of my time and talent ;)....but I can cook - nothing fancy- take out is still a better option.
I surprisingly old fashion when it comes to relationships. I spend my day being agressive and when I get home I want to be treated like a girl!
The main reason for all this change was the demise of my marriage. Yes, I am techincally a widow- but I was in the process of a divorce. My marriage was long over when he passed and I feel like I do a disservice to a true widow like my father who lost my wonderful mother after 32 happy years together. There is NO price charming to live up to- my life was more like a bad lifetime movie then a disney fairy tale. I am still looking for my soul mate!
In my free time I enjoy very typical girly things- like shopping (I take it to another level and make it more about the hunt). I love running and working out. I love trashy reality tv shows and I am not afraid to admit it. I am not one of those girls that is going to pretend to love fishing and camping. I love boats and 4 star hotels- I love going to dinner and going out. I love dressing up and looking pretty- but I can also chill on the couch and watch football. I love relaxing on a beach with a good book and some company!
I tend to get along best with people who have the same mentality as me. I am very happy with what I have-but I always push myself to get to the next level. I am looking for someone to share my success with and to share theirs. I want a true partner- I want someone who will be there when I am up for a huge award or speaking to 400 people and someone who knows when I had a rough day and I need a glass a wine and to relax.
I prefer someone closer to my age....realistically I want someone who will fit in with my family. If you are closer to my dad's age...it's not going to work! My family is VERY important to me- after all I have gone thru- I WANT IT ALL...I wont settle but I will compromise!
None of them live in NY anymore- My dad and brother are in south FL and my sister is in MD.
and lastly....PLEASE don't pretend that you want to buy a house....I have more then enough business to keep me busy- I don't like wasting my time on a fake house hunt :)