I used to think I was the world's biggest nerd until I started my job that I both love and dread going to everyday. Now I'm one of the cool kids looking for my cool kid nerd. I adore my family because they are always pushing me to be stronger. My friends encourage my goofiness, but know that I will be the one that will get things taken care of.
My ideal match would be the oddly sweet nerd that most think as an (pg-13 edit). I like hearing I'm smart/sexy/sweet/fill in the blank complement here, but I prefer the ones that do the gruff pointing out what needs to be done when I am being girly, who notices my favorite things and just does them because I seem off without expecting recognition, and gets shy when it's pointed out how sweet those actions are. I'm not one that's going to be sugary sweet and so I don't need my partner to be.