ME: I'll start by saying that I'm not looking for head games or hookups. I have a pretty good idea of who I'm looking for and I'm here in hopes of finding that person. Someone to brighten my days. Someone who I can take on the world with! Ultimately, I'm looking for a best friend. Someone I can make happy just by being me.
As I mentioned before I am a nurse. I love making a difference in the lives of others, both in my personal and professional life. I love to laugh and joke around and would love to be the reason you wake up smiling.
I care more about your work ethic than I do about your paycheck. More about where you're going than the car you're driving to get there. More about your mind than your muscles. In general, I care far more about how you got to where you are today, than where you actually are today.
YOU: You are probably witty and easy going. Probably a thinker and a realist. You are stable, and have a big heart. You love your mom and children, if you have any. You probably vote and recycle. You will be able to differentiate between your/you're, too/to/two, etc. I'm not looking for Einstein here, just some basic grammar. :) You might like the Brewers, the Badgers or even the Packers, but you probably aren't a Nascar fan. You likely enjoy the outdoors and science. You are compassionate and you genuinely care about the good of mankind. You are masculine, but sensitive. :)
You most likely won't feature shirtless pics taken in a mirror, or pics of yourself leaned up against your Camaro. You aren't racist or sexist. . You'd never be standing outside Planned Parenthood screaming "baby killer" and you don't think sexually active women who use birth control are "sluts". You don't support (or vote for) anyone who does think so. If you've inherited your daddy's million dollar practice, yet love to use the words 'handouts' and 'entitlements' in reference to anyone poor or middle class, I'm not your girl.
I am attracted to intelligence. Someone who is truly smart, not someone who acts like he knows everything. I am looking for someone who can take life as it comes, and laugh along the way. I like witty humor and quick comebacks. I do, however, like to have serious/stimulating conversations as well. I am attracted to guys who I can learn from. I would much rather hear your opinion (regardless of what it is) on politics, or religion, or stem cell research, than hear about your high school glory days. Especially if you're 40! Don't get me wrong, I'm sure it was an awesome touchdown, and I wish I could have seen you make the winning 3 pointer in the last second of the game, but what have you done since then?!!!
Guys who are capable of opening up on an intellectual and an emotional level impress me. I like guys who are kind and who genuinely care about other human beings. Yes, I said that already, but that's how much it means to me. I almost always root for the underdog and I'm attracted to guys who have a similar mindset. Just be nice. I promise it isn't hard!! :) If you're the guy who points and giggles at overweight people or disabled people, you are NOT my guy. My match is someone who knows how to be a gentleman (a little old fashioned), but isn't a pushover; nice but not too nice. So complicated isn't it? : )
I also have a son who is 13 years old. No, you didn't miss it earlier. I omitted it for a couple reasons. Mostly, because I didn't want to be eliminated from your search. You can thank me later :) But also, because I like to know who actually cares enough to read what I'm all about, rather than just look at the pictures. Anyhow, my son is intelligent and has a great sense of humor. He likes to play sports, watch ESPN and pretend he's not looking when the Victoria's Secret commercials come on. Not unlike most men in their 30's. :) I would have to really dig you to involve you in my son's life, but I need someone who is open to the idea.