I know what I want, so if you're looking to play the field, date a bunch of different women, or just play with someone's affections, then stop reading now and move on, please.
I am a sports nut, I know alot about sports especially football and baseball, my son and I love to attend games.
I am a proud mother of 2 wonderful children. My life has always been and will always be centered around them, whether it be chauffeuring my son and his friends around, or having him and his friends at my home, it has and is always about my children. That being said, I have lost track of my wants and needs, and don't think I am living up to my potential in the mommy department, seeing me happy and in a healthy giving, relationship can only reinforce what they will become and strive for when they get older.
I am truly looking for someone to share my life with, to enjoy the little things, to be supportive of my decisions and be there to give me advice, whether I like what they have to say or not. I want someone to lean on in good times and bad, and someone who isn't afraid to lean on me when needed too. I am simple, I don't need fancy, lavish, material things. I want a down to earth, real life, gonna be there for each other no matter how hard times are, kinda person. I don't give up easily if I am passionate about something, that being said I don't want to rush into something that is not right for me, my kids, or the other person. Things don't always work out the way we've envisioned but I've realized they work out the way God intended them to and the way they were supposed to, even though at the time we may have a tough time seeing it that way. I refuse to travel the path of unhappiness again. I ask that whoever I meet be true to themselves from the get go, don't put on a facade that you want me to see, it only lasts so long and in the long run the truth emerges and more than one person ends up getting hurt, and if there are children involved they are affected by it the most, I won't do that to my children, and I definitely wouldn't do that to anyone else's.
I've recently started working out again, I am briskly walking and hoping to do a 5K with some coworkers this early summer to support breast cancer, a cause close to my heart because I've had 3 friends pass away from it. That being said I am slowly working up to that goal, brisk walks outside, walking/running on the treadmill and would love to have someone that would encourage me and hopefully be right along with me during the training and maybe even the 5K itself?
I want to meet someone who understands the importance of being a role model, showing respect and standing their ground throughout it all. I want to take things slow, get to know each other, spend time together doing simple things, a walk, coffee, etc. Simplicity I believe tells a lot about a person, if you can enjoy a simple walk, a cup of coffee and be yourself then I've learned that life has more meaning to you and you are able to appreciate little things more. I love day trips, sight seeing, meeting new people, going out for ice cream, and walks and talks, friends would say that I am a determined woman, and have persevered through many tough times, but always come out on top.
A relationship should be an opportunity to grow together, to share life experiences together. I know what I want, and have came close to getting it but knew deep down that it wasn't the right match for me. I have settled, and I will not do that again. I don't have a need for companionship, I have a want. I want to be able to share my life with someone worthy of me and my children, and in return I want someone who I feel worthy of as well. If you have the same beliefs and wants that I do then maybe our search is over?