I am easy to get along, opinionated, outspoken, shy, reserved, and totally unpredictable sometimes. I do believe in instant chemistry though, it's either there or it's not. If it's not I won't waste anyone's time on it. But I do miss having that guy who attracts me both intellectually and physically. I'm a tough match though, to be honest. This next statement is going to sound like I am full of myself so I am going to articulate with what seems like the least amount of hubris I can. So when men start to date me it's usually based on looks. But when I begin to speak I either scare them because they think I am too sophisticated/educated, or they go crazy for the same reason. But I will say this honestly, I've never EVER fallen for someone who wasn't intelligent, and I can cut through that pretty quickly, so if you don't think you are capable of a cerebral or challenging conversation, you will be wasting your time even writing me. Lastly, phrases I could do without forever - "likes to cuddle" "not afraid to cry" and "looking for the love of my life". My paragon of man is Daryl Dixon from the Walking Dead so don't hit me up if your looking for some mushy moments. That bores me.