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40 year old man
Los Angeles, California, United States

Seeking:
women 24-45
Within:
100 Miles of Santa Monica, California, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
Latino / Hispanic, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'10" (177cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Moderately

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

Ladies, please just talk and be real. Speak from your heart. Don't just talk about what you think we want to hear. Believe me, we probably don't care about that.. I am not saying we don't care about you and the things that have meaning to you. I am just saying no guy wants to hear a woman state the obvious, for instance you want to travel and have fun, share life. Duh, who doesn't. To be clear, I admit, I am not all that to some, and I am all that to others. I just want to find the ones that think I am, and disregard the ones that don't. That is a pretty straight forward recipe for connection... Oh, and if it were so easy, why am I trying desperately to qualify for that free 6 month guarantee... ha ha on me, sucker and pessimist trying real hard to be the optimist I know is locked down deep, not too deep, but deep inside me. And yes, I am a nice guy, so check that box off, OK, back to my little essay...This is not the typical puppy dogs, rainbows, unicorns, walk on the beach and donate fortunes to poverty stricken children oversea's profile that you are used to. Nor is this the testosterone filled, alpha male, advertisement of prowess in the boardroom and bedroom profile you might also be familiar with. No. This is a guy who is going to tell it to you straight and fess up to a white lie. Truth, I met my first wife through a site similar to this 7 years ago.. and it went from bad to worse after marriage. No details, you'll not get that kind of complaining and pity party out of me. Just know I understand all your apprehensions about on line dating. But, aren't we better off than then being set up by our grandparents... I know that can work too, but get real. So here we are. Both afraid, not fearful, but afraid nonetheless, that the person we fall in love with over a profile, or profile pic, or a few emails, is not in fact the person we came to expect. That happens a lot, I know. Sometimes it's just plain silly that people think they can say one thing on line, but then present totally different in person... perhaps the person is much bigger than they said... or, is much smaller for that matter... we all have our respective preferences. Perhaps the gilded tongue born out of hours of reflectively drafted emails is more crass and less cerebral than we hoped when tested over buckets of coffee and scones at the local euro snob espresso house that we carefully selected in order to project a sense of class and hipness that we so desperately feel pressured into in order to get a step ahead of the competition. Let me clear a few things up... I am an optimist. I am caring. I am fit, quite fit.. I am not a felon nor am I mentally unstable (I have neither been prescribed medication for mental illness, nor do I take such un-prescribed medication for recreation). I am just a regular guy, pretty decent career, not a bad looker (some, and I say some, women find me quite attractive... others, not so much... hey its buffet out there and you have your preferences just like I have mine). You don't have to answer my emails... in fact, if you are not interested but feel a need to not be rude (as stupid Match.com suggests, like you are going to respond to all 1000 emails in your box just to say "no thank you") don't. Respond to me or write to me if you are truly interested. I am not judgmental. If I write to you, its because I like you, I find you interesting. I am excited by the thought of spending time with you. If I write you back, ditto. If I don't write you back, it's not because you are bad, it's many other things that are personal to me and not reflective of you. And, I will assume the same if you don't write me back. I will now return you to the typical, banal, but heartfelt typical profile, below... enjoy.

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Playing sports, Political interests, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Aerobics, Billiards / Pool, Cycling, Golf, Inline skating, Martial arts, Running, Skiing, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
I have Dogs
Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Virgo
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

On the beach in the water or on top of the mountains, the sun on my face, the wind in my hair,and active, active, and even more active... keep it healthy.

Favorite hot spots:

LA's unique restaurants or bars off the beaten path...Chilling at sunset with a glass of wine, a breathtaking view and even better company. Travel, say Hawaii (Oahu), the Greek Islands (Naxos) or locally San Diego for a weekend adventure..

Favorite things:

Waking up early on a beautiful long summer day, fresh cup of coffee in hand and the world of options available.. Then, end it all with a great bottle of red, spicy tuna rolls, an orange red sunset, and someone to share it with.

Last read:

YOUR exciting profile filled with a lengthy list of fun activities and a laundry lists of likes and dislikes in a potential partner...

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'10" (177cms)
4'8" (142cms) to 5'10" (177cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Hazel
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Occasionally, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Moderately
No preference
Occupation:
Legal
No preference

Work to live NOT live to work... I make a decent living, so what... after the bills are paid I want to enjoy. Cut off work early, because I can, and go surfing at El Porto or Sunset. Work hard during the week so I don't have to work on the weekend.

Income:
$100,001 to $150,000
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
No preference
Have kids:
No
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
Not sure
Definitely, Someday, Not sure, Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Latino / Hispanic, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other
No preference

Hybrid... white latino pacific islander = me.

Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
No preference
Languages:
English
English
Education:
Graduate degree
Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

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