I like seeing the best of people in general. I do not respond well to negativity so, I'm very positive and want to find someone that values that in a woman. I want to see real true meaning of life and what it can bring to the relationship if there is one to be made. My friends see me as being open and blunt and down to earth as well as honest and caring, affectionate and loving towards my kids. I would like to see that from my ideal mate in return. My kids are my greatest accomplishment even if they have their problems. I fel extremely blessed and would be happy to have someone understand that my kids come first before anyone else.